My new bf and I have a great sexual relationship, but there's something that's bothering me. He told me with his exes he was able to go multiple rounds in one night, but with me, after round one, junior is done. I mean there is no getting him up for another round till morning. We've tried everything. I know that in the past he's been able to go HOURS (with the ex) and not c*m. Heck, he couldn't even c*m when she gave him a bj, which we have NO PROBLEM with. Before you say it, I know he isn't more stressed than usual, so I'm wondering what the heck is going on. Could I'm not be doing something right or just the opposite? I'm lucky if he moves after everything is said and done. What's your opinion?
2006-08-24 03:25:54 · 16 answers · asked by T.G. 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW: We are adventurous. We have tried a lot of different things in a lot of different places. Just about anything he is curious about we have done (we've had the same amount of partners, but I've had more practice) cuz I've probably already done it and have a good idea what he will like. And yes, we've done the porn thing (watching and making our own).
2006-08-24 03:46:39 · update #1
you sure he wasnt lieing to you about what he did with his ex??
2006-08-24 03:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he comes slow when he's with them, that's because either he's not turned on enough by them, or he doesn't try to hold it as much with you. But since you said you guys have a great sexual relationship, and he sounds like he tries, then I think it's the first one -- that he's just more turned on by you than the previous ones.
2006-08-24 10:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by BugsBiteBack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make it fun and exciting to go multiple rounds. Guys can even have dry orgasms if the sex is exciting enough to keep them hard after several wet orgasms. Talk to him and find out what his fantasies are, but when you do that it is important to be non-judgmental and do not act shocked if he discloses something you were not prepared for. During the talk identify what things you may be willing to try and what things you are not willing to try. It is ok to have limits.
2006-08-24 10:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my ex I was done after the first time....but with my new g/f I can last for hours with out c*mming....it is all him not you...there is something going on in his head that he is thinking about when he is with you.....but take it slow he will probaly come around soon....try to spice it up some maybe watch some porn together and try to act out the movie together.....
2006-08-24 10:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by jeff402006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's told you a "White One", no way can it vary that much, going form Stallion to Sheep overnight, leave it out, try teh Old Shower trick, soap and massage will do wonders, and you both get to be nic and cleaned of for the next round.........
2006-08-24 10:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by GaryBeechut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess what! there are only 2 answers to this question!
1. He is getting older and is unable to go more than 1 round
2. He is lying so he CAN do kinky stuff with you that u probably wouldn't do but are because you feel its your fault.
trust me its not!, if your making him release with sex and BJ's your doing awesome. I takes an average guy 1-2hrs to recharge his juice battery, so if he can't do that with you there is something wrong with him!!
2006-08-24 12:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend has found a very interesting way to keep your desire to please him high . . . unfortunately it is at the cost of your self esteem and this will only weaken the relationship. But if your boyfriend was that concerned about the relationship, he wouldnt be comparing what is intimate between the two of you with his past sexual experiences.
2006-08-27 00:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by crawdaddy95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here you go, He is c*ming becaue the sex is so great and he is very attracted to you. Here is a few way to fix it. get on top and go slowly to built him up and when he is about to go hop off and bit this THANG very slighty to stop it. This shoud work or you can just Tantic Sex
2006-08-24 10:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by ooodjkooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This new boyfriend should be replaced by another who should be tested to be good in bed before you commit. In any case very few men can have repeated rounds in one session. You're lucky to come across such a man. You're welcome to try me.
2006-08-24 10:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by winterspring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is living in a fantasy world, he wanted you to think he was the all time long lover, kids will be kids
2006-08-24 10:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, sorry. But, have you ever thought maybe he's lying to you about how often he can c*m? You couldn't be that bad.
2006-08-24 10:30:20 · answer #11 · answered by hunterlm84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋