2006-08-24 03:07:13 · 13 answers · asked by annastasia1955ca 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have encountered the selfishness...never again.
2006-08-24 03:08:41 · update #1
Not this man, I take my time, and l do everything possible to make sure the woman is 100% completely satisfied each and every time l make love.
2006-08-24 03:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some men are lazy when it comes to being a lover, and only want to get off with their lady.
On the other hand, I think many men (like myself) deeply desire to actively pursue and engage in a romantic and intense physical relationship with their wife/girlfriend, but their partner does not understand this desire, or even have a clue what to do.
I find that continuous rejection, in spite of years of romance, kindness, and seeking to satisfy her, results in a lack of desire to even want to continue things.
I think that in general, individuals have a different capacity to give and love, and a different appetite to receive love, in various ways. The trick in life is to find a partner with roughly matched capacities and appetites, so that each can enjoy satisfying the other. When things are mismatched (like when a guy has a low capacity to give love, and a high appetite to receive it, compared to his female lover), the perception can be that someone is lazy, non-responsive, etc.
2006-08-24 03:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Michael E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one can speak for all men, but I know that I give as well as I get from her! If she is a "lazy lover", then I'll lose interest and sometimes not even bother finishing, just get up and leave!
2006-08-24 03:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like Al Bundy or According to Jim.
If a man truly loves his wife (and vice versa), both would be wonderful lovers regardless of which phase of the relationship.
2006-08-24 03:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id like to add Doug Heffernon from the king of queens to the list that has al bundy and jim beluschi.
2006-08-24 03:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think they just don't know how to be good lovers. They don't know what us women want in a relationship so they have to be told.Poor things!
2006-08-24 03:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not.. my version o f love is making the girl feel warm n safe when she's with me.. thats not really lazy.. then again its not necessarily active.. i've six pack abs so i'm an active person although that has nothing to do with my love..
2006-08-24 03:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No all men are not lazy lovers i am not by far...........
2006-08-24 23:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men come in differnt sizes and packages just like your perfumes.
2006-08-24 03:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by steve l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most I'd had were, but not the one I married!
2006-08-24 03:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋