My friend is 24 n a girl.she started seeing a new guy about 2 months.when they first started hanging, they saw each other darn near everyday.Now, she is lucky if she sees him once a week.It annoys and upsets her as it almost seems like its not important to him to see her and to hang out.She invited him to go along with her to the lake....he refused and she went alone.other times she asks if he wants to hang out n she says no, he is too tired, wants to stay and hang with his friends or doesnt feel like it -- he always has some reason like that. Lately even their phone conversations have turned quiet and dull she tells me.I noticed he came over to her place last night (we live close together) n that would make it the first time he decided to hang with her in over a week and a half. What is his deal? You can't expect to keep a girlfriend if you are never willing to do anything with her or go anywhere. What is going on? Is he only in it for the sex?
2006-08-24 02:44:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like he's losing interest in her or someone else got his attention.
2006-08-24 02:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has someone else on the side and she is getting the short end of the stick... You are her friend.. take her out and let her mingle. Two months is not a lot of time to be all hooked on someone. So I believe that she can get over this looser quickly and tell her to stop giving him some.. He does not deserve her goods... She needs a back bone to say NO... I bet he is not that great in bed that she is whipped, but if she is she just needs to get really drunk (if she is old enough) and flirt.... Some one will make her feel right again.. But she needs to leave him..... ASAP!!
2006-08-24 02:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it to me. If he was really interested in her, he would be with her every second he has. He is just keeping her on the side to get what he wants. I guarantee he want be around for a while after that little visit.
2006-08-24 02:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is getting tired of the relationship, some guys don't like to be with one girl for too long. She needs to find out if he is still interested in the relationship before she gets in it futher and really gets hurt.
2006-08-24 02:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by mariajd3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im thinking BOOTY CALL!!! O HELL NA>>> I THINK I GOT A BOOTY CALL!!!! J/k it sounds like hes just a flat out JERK, and she needs to realize she is better than this, and ignore him and not hang out with him anymore. She needs to move on, he obviously isnt ready for the type of relationship she wants to have.
2006-08-24 02:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl but yeah he is in it only for the SEX. He connected long enough for that and well you know the rest.
2006-08-24 02:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shouldn't you be asking a guy???????
but anyway that could mean anything. maybe hes truly is tired. maybe hes creepin around. maybe he just doesn't want to date her anymore. maybe hes hiding something. he could be losing interest. or he could be tired of waiting around for sex.
the only real way to know is to confront him. we aren't psychics or dr. phil and we don't know what his deal is. your a guy. talk to him about it and get answers. or even better she needs to sit down with him and have a serious tslk about whats goin on.
2006-08-24 02:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by Shea Butta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely he is in for the sex and maybe he hangs out with another girl. tell your friend to stop seeing him.
2006-08-24 02:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by ancutzica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that he has just moved on and doesnt have enough guts to say that he has.
2006-08-24 02:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about your last question... i think yes he's only in for it...
2006-08-24 02:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋