Me and my gf broke up in the beginning of July. We were on again off again for 10 months. Now, she totally ignores me. Won't email me, won't call me, won't accept my calls. If I email her, once in a while I'll get a response not to email her anymore but lately I haven't. I know she reads my email because I receive a receipt for them. She just doesn't respond. She's done this before and one time didn't talk to me for two months. She's a very moody woman. What should I do? I miss her and hearing from her. My friends believe she's got me like a "YoYo" playing games and dangling me on a string. I need help with this question. Thank you.
2006-08-24 02:10:29 · 5 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't have broken up with her if you still loved her....or if she broke up with you then i think its time to move on...date other girls or let her see that you're totally over her, this usually gets the girl's attention and if she likes you still, she will talk to you again.
2006-08-24 02:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Beachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy have I been in your shoes! Here is what I would suggest...it worked for me. If you continue to call her and email her, all you will succeed in doing is driving her further away. The best thing you can do is to let her alone. In fact, you need to act very indifferent to her. It will be hard, no doubt. Believe me, there wasn't a day that went by that I didn't want to pick up the phone and call, or wait for an email from her. But the fact of the matter is that women operate a little differently than we men do. They respond to different things. As long as you continue to call and email, she will not pay any attention to you. As soon as you stop she will notice. If you act indifferently toward her, she will notice that as well. Don't be mean...just distant. This may take awhile. Women are more patient than we are. But trust me...if she thinks that you have gotten over her, that will gnaw at her and she will make contact. Be patient. Be steadfast.
You may want to consider the possibility that she has moved on. If she has, unfortunately there isn't much you can do about it. She will have to come around on her own. Until then, you need to let her go. Do your thing. Try and keep your mind from worrying too much. If she still has feelings for you, she will eventually let you know.
Good luck!!!
-Mark
2006-08-24 09:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by yankeescoundrel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give yourself more self-respect and dignity. You know as hard as it is to forget someone sometimes its the best thing we can do. She is doing precisely what your friends say she is doing, dangling you there until she can find someone else that is willing to bother her and make her feel special and for fill all her egocentric narcissistic ways, don't stand for it. Ignore her for a while and if its true love she will return and if she doesn't she was never yours to begin with...Good Luck
2006-08-24 09:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you in a relationship now?
If you are not, I think you must move on. There must be a huge problem with you and your ex if you had split and come back again for several times only in 10 months!
Obviously, you both have trust issues and are not talking.
I think you both will be alot happier if you just move on.
2006-08-24 09:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how much you love her and want her back
2006-08-24 09:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋