I have just come out of a three year relationship where i was engaged to my partner. Yet i feel i am ready to start looking for love already, is that wrong?? I hadn't been happy in the relationship for the past 9months. I was paying for everything although he was on a better wage than i am. He had larges debts that he hadn't told me about. I'm 21 and I feel like i need to b wined and dined. Am i wrong to be looking for love??
2006-08-24 02:02:11 · 16 answers · asked by Becki_C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like me a year ago! My ex was horrible and it took me a while to get out of the relationship and realise he really wasnt good enough for me. I think at the moment you are looking for companionship, enjoy being single. I went straight into a new relationship after coming out of the 3 year one, and it didnt work at all. 6 months later, I met the perfect bloke, he treats me so well and we are so happy together, but it took time being single to realise what I wanted from a relationship and that I should have respect for myself and not become a doormat!
Hope this helps and good luck! x
2006-08-24 02:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends, if you get with someone else for the wrong reasons you'll just end up going around in circles.
I was gutted when my ex moved on so quickly, I then suffered from a nervous breakdown (which had been building up for years) so now all I do now is masturbate while watching Countdown, self harm during Neighbours and make beans on toast during Cash in The Attic.
I'm still happier now than I've ever been and I never listen to idiots who tell me daytime TV is nothing but a load of ****.
2006-08-24 10:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Only you can decide when too soon is too soon. If you feel you're ready to get back out there, then do it! If you have been unhappy for nine months, then maybe, emotionally, the old relationship ended for you a long time ago and not just recently.
2006-08-24 09:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look for someone at this point but look for fun. dont go out there looking for mr right because then you are going to go into it seriously and miss on the fun part of it.look for companionship,plenty of fun,a little bit of TLC and be open to pursue a relationship IF it ever goes there.if it does not progress to that enjoy the relationship to the fullest and never you worry because love is along the way.patience!
2006-08-24 09:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,you"re not.Just make sure that you do not rush into anything because you"re on the rebound.You have every right to be happy,and if being in love is what does it for you,good luck.Take with you the experiences of the past,they make for a brighter future.
2006-08-24 09:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by porkupuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just looking for some TLC rather than love ... you've had a bad experience and feel you need to be looked after for a while rather than doing the looking after ... Shame I'm married!
2006-08-24 09:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a relationship like that. I think its time you went out and found yourself a guy who will treat you like a princess. Its never to early or late to find love and if you feel your ready your ready girl !!!!!! Go for it........... But remember you have the right to be choosy........
P.S. am over here (HEHE)
2006-08-24 09:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember what you learned from this relationship and don't repeat yourself. you learned what kind of man you don't want now take those lessons with you .have a wonderful time exploring new things,remember we usually follow patterns and end up with the same type person if we are not careful.remember what you learned.
2006-08-24 09:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're on d rite path if you look 4 other love girl...lotsa men much more better than him..why should you pay his debt but you didn't get anything?it doesn't worth if you stick wif him..you deserved to love & to be love..find other guy you desereve to!
2006-08-24 09:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sum fun 1st go out with mates give it a few weeks an c if u feel the same
2006-08-24 09:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by dr_gonzo_1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋