I have this 3 month sex rule and I really like my current boyfriend! Lately things been getting kinda hot and heavy! Alot of almost doing stuff been taking place and alot of playing with the goodies! I know that when I get back at the end of nov/ dec, i'll be getting ready to go to school and he'll be getting ready to go to basic training and we won't see each other anymore until about april! When we our relationship hits that 3 months, I'll be over in Colorado and he still in North Carolina. So do you think I should go ahead and break it?
2006-08-24 01:51:10 · 24 answers · asked by SimplyBeautifulKey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone is different. You are making rules to suit yourself. It depends what is more important to you. Your rules, or the person.
2006-08-24 01:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by JeffE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for having such strong values. That is up to you. You have held out this long so do you think it would be worth it? What if he never talks to you or contacts you after basic training. He will still have a few more months of AIT after the basic. He might just be wanted some sex. Unless he is in the guard/reserves he will be stationed some place else and might find a new girlfriend and you will never see him again. Would it be worth it?
2006-08-24 01:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your rule.... so either break it or stay with it.
I can only say this, think with a clear mind see what comes to you. If it is yes break it then break it or else....
Chances are that after your separation both of you may start liking someone else, since you are young. So even if go ahead and have sex with your boyfriend, then separate in a way that if anything happens between both of you can be friends forever.
Njoy....
2006-08-24 01:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by sanghvir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People amaze me with the private sh*t they wish to make public. A three month rule impressive to have boundaries these days and some sense of morales, but ultimately the decision is yours and not this circle of peers you have decide to appoint to give you insight on what you should do.
I could tell you ,yeah sure, or I could say no if he loves you he will wait, but then think real hard and ask yourself who I am to tell you how you should live when I do not know you from any other person on this site?
2006-08-24 02:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know your truth and weigh what it deserves.
Be very certain before you act dear,men has feelings too.
Don't allow careless emotions drive you to wreckage and self-destruction.It takes lots of expertise & experiences to get the definition of your 3month-rule I am sure but it will take just one man to break that so beware of bad karmas for you never know when it's going to strike you and leave you totally shattered.
Remember the golden rule,"don't do unto others what you don't want others do unto you".
Be good.
2006-08-24 02:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could stick with the rule and see how things go, if you both really like each other sex shouldnt matter......or you can just go for it...but sometimes sex ruins a relationship
2006-08-24 01:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by kjpierce08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly. What kind of a stupid rule's that, anyway? Either you like someone and you know where the time's come or you don't and you don't sleep with him.
2006-08-24 01:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by possum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your call, but sounds like a good idea if you are serious about the relationship.
2006-08-24 01:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not a virgin, it's no big deal then.
Buy some of those "for her pleasure" condoms and slap one on that sucker!
2006-08-24 01:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋