what to do when you call your boyfriend and ask him to meet for lunch like in an hour no previous plans were made but he bails out and later in the day leaves you a text message saying sorry should I call him or stay mad ??
2006-08-24 01:42:10 · 13 answers · asked by sim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Know this...you will gain nothing by staying mad with him, you will only hurt yourself in the process and become bitter about things, you should be the bigger person and move on from this...remember he is your boyfriend, but he is also an individual also with plans of his own...repsect that, and dont always assume he has to be there at your every beckon call, you wont be so easily hurt if things dont go the way you want them to.
2006-08-24 02:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only gave him an hour notice, but something could've came up. Did he say why he had to bail? Call him and talk to him. You never know what happened if you don't ask.
2006-08-24 08:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should definitely call rather than stay mad. You've no idea what happened. Could be a genuine reason. Sounds like he got caught up in something.
2006-08-24 08:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by puzzledfemale! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things do pop up - since the invitation was at the last minute you should forgive and make another time for lunch or dinner
2006-08-24 08:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him.
If he has a real job, you cannot expect him to make lunch plans with only one hour notice.
2006-08-24 08:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by ecmfw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out why he bailed first then decide if its worth getting mad about. also does he do this alot?
2006-08-24 08:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me i would stay mad but i don't have a boyfriend so i think call him
2006-08-24 08:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ amal_dxb ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last minute plans don't always work out...give him a break
2006-08-24 08:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am sure that something came up either at work/college or with his family and as he said sorry of course u should forgive him right :P?
2006-08-24 08:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about just letting it go... no good will come of getting mad... things happen... get over it... move on...
rearrange for another day... and get him to buy... :D
2006-08-24 08:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋