Before going out wit me, my boo was dating this chic and whn they broke up she went away & I thot t'was 4 good bt nw she's coming back nxt month and they'r going 2 b staying together in the same Hostel. I think she stil lyks him cz i accidentally saw a msg 4rm her to my boo telling him abt her feelings. I dnt knw hw 2 react cz i dnt want 2 seem insecure, bt @ the same time if i keep quiet i'l die of jealousy whn i see them together!
2006-08-24 01:15:07 · 16 answers · asked by wendy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confront him. If you suspect, its usually true. Can't he find another hotel to stay in? Or just wait and see if they are in the same part or on the same floor. If they are, then I would confront him. Best option. Otherwise you feel like you can't trust him, and that can ruin a relationship faster than anything.
2006-08-24 01:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by neon_lover1996 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prepare for the worst, ex's have a way of getting to us men trust me I know. There is nothing worse then having a ex coming around that knows everything about a man that you do.
Talk to him tell him you trust him but he needs to understand that your trust can be easily lost and so can you if he makes the wrong decisions.
2006-08-24 01:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't stand that!! If my bf's ex who still had feelings for him was staying with him, i'd go crazy. I'm not normally an insecure or jealous person, but that would make any normal person insecure/crazy. Why must they stay together? That's just not right.
2006-08-24 01:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk 2 him
2006-08-24 01:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rhine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you break it off if you think he wants to be with her. Don't let them make you jealous make them jealous.Get a new man who won't try to meet up with his x-girl. So you can be happy and if you really like him so he can be happy with her.If he doesn't want you to leave he'll leave her alone just to be with you.He knows if he does that there will be no signs of cheating.
2006-08-24 01:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try 2 talk 2him about it and c wats up if they get back 2gether there are more people out there let them come 2 u don't chase them
2006-08-24 01:21:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man loves you he wont stay with his ex.If he is gonna play those games move on.Let him see how it feels.Or tell him how you feel.If he cares about you he will respect your feelings.If he don't you ain't got nothing without respect.Move on to someone who will respect and care for you.
2006-08-24 01:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whooahh.... All the signs are on right now. Better take note of it. I'd let go of him if I were you.
You deserve somebody better Girl!!
2006-08-25 22:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell him honestly how you feel. Keeping everything inside will hurt you more. If he's really concerned about you, he will do something right about it to make you feel more secure.
I will not feel good about it if this were to happen to me as well. Take care. =)
2006-08-24 02:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy. He'll end up cheating on you with her.
2006-08-24 03:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋