Why dont people view questions about say porn, hookers, strippers etc from a single persons pov.Esp when told2

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Why dont people view questions about say porn, hookers, strippers etc from a single persons pov.Esp when told2.


Most answers I see seem to assume.

Everyone is in a couple as they go along the lines of how would you gf/wife feel, or would you not prefer to be with your gf etc.

or they assume
Girlfriend/boyfriends are easy to get and nobody ever gets rejected.

Like what dont you just get a gf... Well aint so easy for guys...

Ie it takes more then wearing tight shorts, a short kilt or low cut top and saying anyone want to be my gf I lick fast?

Also assumeing the girl must be despirate as cant find other work...

How comes it never occurs to folk that maybe they tried other work and the pole dancing pays 10x as much for a lot less work so used the sence of this way no mortage...

Also how comes it never occurs to folk that maybe people find repeatative brain dead, boring work, with hastle over your shoulder or having to get rid of your wacky haircut in a bitchy bac

background is a lot more degrading and less fun then dancing, getting your photo taken, playing make out and meeting new people many of who make you feel hot.?

Also why assume that the choice is girlfriend or stripper/porn/hooker...

And not nothing but a lonley flat.



Or not acknowleding that if you are older going clubbing may not be so easy especailly if your soulmate you have been with since 15 died and you are say in mid fourties... what are you supposed to do ... never be with someone of the opposite sex ever again?

or assumig you can get with a mate... most girl mates wont want to change the realtionship to sexual and doing so may loose your few single mates and when older most will be in long term relationships with kids.


So nobody to go out for lads night on the town etc.


So why do people only see things from the pov of being in a couple & asume the girl is dumb or despirate.

Maybe she likes the attention? maybe was the ugly one in school now hot?

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ITS ASKED SEVERAL TIMES...

WHY DO PEOPLE ASSUME QUESTIONS ABOUT WHAT COULD BE BEST DESCRIBED AS SERVICES TO BRING COMFORT TO LONLEY GUYS

ARE ONLY USED BY THOSE IN A COUPLE?

ONLY SEEING FROM A COUPLES VIEW POINT?

IE MAYBE THE PERSON DOES NOT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND TO BE JEALOUS AND THE CHOICE AINT GIRLFRIEND OR NIGHT WITH HOOKER/STRIPPERWS/PORN BUT NOTHING?

AND WHY ASSUME THE ONE ON STAGE AINT THERE OUT OF CHOICE?

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Why are people confused how much more simple can it be?

Ie why do people think that the choice is between say a hooker or seeing a stripper...

And spending a night hugging your pillow if you are sinlge...

You dont have the choice of hooker or girlfriend if you are single...

Why don't people get not everyone is in a couple?

Er NEVER SAID I was 40+ ouch... am 33

Answer 1

what the hell?!
You are clearly having a shite time yourself so don't worry about others concerntrate on getting better..

Answer 2

I'm not entirely sure about the question but I think I know what you're getting at. My girlfriend when I was post grad was an "exotic dancer" also doing a Master's in Psychology. She made 300 pounds on a good night and didn't have to take any loans for her degree.

I trusted that she wouldn't sleep with any of her audience because I loved her and respected the fact that she could use the beautiful body God gave her to give pleasure to others and make money at the same time.

Most people seem to have a moral problem with this but it's utter hypocrisy. Every man has used his physical superiority to his advantage at one time or another and every woman has used her sexuality to her advantage.

People should live and let live and stop judging others.

Viking xxx

Answer 3

well honey, and who said that life is easy? of course finding a perfect bf/gf is a hard work. that's why u will value each other. but to my 36 years old point of view it is better to be single than just with somebody whom u don't like and who doesn't suit u. and again from my experience - if u love to be alone with yourself, if u like who u re and what your place in this world u will find a partner and friends very very easy. i don't know how, but somehow it just happens.


ps. about u being in your mid 40. my husband found me when he was in his late 40. in a club. he went out alone ONCE and met me. and he is a very lovely person. so man, instead of bragging how life is hard here, better work on your personality - if u don't like your life that much there is smth definitely wrong with your life. i personally wouldn't want to have such a person for a friend - u re too depressing

Answer 4

Maybe people don't answer you for 2 reasons they either don't understand your question which is as clear as mud. Or because they just think your a pointless w*er having a rant!

Answer 5

You must the most boring person i have never met.
I didnt even read that Shite you wrote, it was just tooooo long.
Its sounds like you talk far too much.
Do you have trouble holding down a relationship???
You would drive me to drink.

Answer 6

Heavy question,however all the answers on here are only our opinions,there are all sorts of reasons and causes for any of us to want to use or do any of the above,at the end of the day who is to judge? none of us are perfect and everyone deserves respect no matter what , no disrespect to you only my opinion remember xx

Answer 7

I cant actually understand your question, but I am sure you have a very good point.

Somewhere, take care of yourself!

Answer 8

u raise an interesting point!! but i dont av an answer 4 ya!!

Answer 9

Seriously...was that a question or an aimless ramble?

Answer 10

What the heck??!! I am completely confused...