Tough call!!?
I am an indian. i love a girl who s also indian.
we belong to different castes.
my parents are a bit traditionalist. they are not allowing us to get married.
i am well settled and earning very well.
my parents re hurt and they re not accepting our relation.
i cant go against their will, i cant even think of leaving this girl.
the girl is the best that anyone can get. i have tried my best to explain things to my parents. its 3 days now since i spoke to them about this. but they re stubborn.
what should i do???
2006-08-24 00:52:24 · 9 answers · asked by topgun 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem i have is because my parents say either chose us or the girl.
what i am supposed to do??
its like i am asked either choose your left eye or right eye. which one you need more??
2006-08-24 00:57:22 · update #1
Sit your parents down and talk to them again and tell them how you feel about this girl. And be sure to tell them that they should come to accept her because she is now apart of your life. I would not advice to allow this to come between you and your parents so keep on talking to them and everything will be fine. They just need time to process the information that their little boy aint that little anymore.
2006-08-24 00:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i understand it is a very hard situation you are going in to.
maybe, this will work.
parents want the best for us. they want us to be great, to be a model to others, be someone people will look up to.
however, since your family is really into following traditions, you are caught up in a huge problem. talk to them and explain that you understand their part, but however, this is one chance that you can't miss for your life since you really love the girl. explain to them that there should not be a struggle between your parents and your girlfriend.
rather, you must help each other and talk together as a family.
a family never leaves each other.
a family is always together - for good and bad.
a family sees your flaws, but never sees less of you.
a family understands.
i hope this had helped.
i sincerely hope you could straighten things up, soon..
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2006-08-24 01:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by tweetytweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are financially stable and can take care of the woman of your choice. Go ahead follow your heart.
Keep talking to your parents though and hopefully they will come around when they see how happy you are.
2006-08-24 01:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget about your parents and marry the girl
2006-08-24 00:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Toy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your relation not there's, besides I'm sure they've made a few mistakes if it came to that. Not by the way you state, love hurts.
2006-08-24 00:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your heart!
2006-08-24 00:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by poepies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this girl go against your family and marry her and start your own family it will be their loss not yours.
2006-08-24 01:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go against your parents, you are an adult now, act like one.
2006-08-24 00:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your life! follow your hart.Traditions are broken every day.
They will get over it,
2006-08-24 00:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋