I want to be happy and without worries.. is it possible? But no god related / religious reply please...?

Answer 1

Accept the things you cannot change.
Smile and the world will smile back.
Don't watch or read the news.
Love yourself.
Be patient.

Answer 2

it is possible.

sort out your worries. write them down on a piece of paper.

go over them and see which ones are really important and if you can work them out.

Sometimes it's best not to sweat the small stuff.

It's all small stuff! :)


Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.


Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.


Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.


Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.


You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.


Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.


With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

Answer 3

Yes. Welcome your worries, they are nothing more than a learning process. Try to recognize them as such. Face the problem that is making you worry so much, it can't be any harder then living in a constant state of worrying. If you can define what it is that is worrying you, then fix it, even if it cost you pain. The pain will fade, and you will find happiness again. You are a strong human being, only you know what you have to do to fix the problem. Even if it is outrageous. You only want happy, wonderful good times in your life, dig deep, grab on to your own strength, fix it and be proud of what it is you've done to make yourself happy again.
Truly real happiness comes from within ourselves, no one else or thing can make us happy, we have to be happy with ourselves first, then we can share it with others, that brings more happy. hehehe
happy, happy, joy, joy. Allow yourself to smell the roses, its a big beautiful world we live in, enjoy it. Good Luck.

Answer 4

It is possible. Sell everything you have and buy a spot of land way out in the mountains, dig a cave and move in.

The money from selling everything goes into the bank for things you need and the rest you get from the land.

No one around to bother you. Be happy...

Answer 5

I really think being without worries is impossible, Everyone has problems, You just have to take them in stride and one day at a time. and that does make you a little happier.

Answer 6

I think it`s unpossible exept in movies.Cuz the cost of the happy live is the WORRIES..

Answer 7

well, happy also a day will pass, not happy also a day will pass so adjust your mental state and stay happy, don't think too much....appreciate every little things that made you happy and smile.....cheers!!