can you help me i am 14 years old i am a bedwetter day and night and mum is telling me off so much i need help

Question

mum tells me off so much when she changes my diapers and she is nasty to me sometimes i hate it so much but my dad is so nice to me and always helps me

Answer 1

I'm curious as to why, at age 14, your mom still changes your diaper for you. If you are old enough to enjoy wearing them all the time like this then you are old enough to change your own diaper.

That is one way to keep mom from telling you off all the time. If she doesn't have to do the dirty work of changing you she might be a lot nicer to you. Sooner or later you will have to do it yourself so you might as well start now.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Ask your mother if you could go to a doctor and get checked. You might have some problem that could be corrected somehow. It is just by the time you are your age, you should have already outgrown it. Try cutting down maybe on your water intake, and you might be putting off going to the bathroom until it is too late, if you are doing something that you do not want to stop. It is hard, but give yourself time, cut down on the water, and get an examination. Something else might be going on or wrong that needs attention. Your mother should not be taking it out on you. Just tell her you will wash your own soiled things and maybe she will leave you alone. Good luck.

Answer 3

Have your parents make an appointment with a Urologist IMMEDIATELY for an evaluation of your problem.

IN the mean time, MAKE yourself GO to the bathroom every 1 - 2 hours.

At night DO NOT drink any liquids AFTER 6:00 pm. Go to the bathroom BEFORE GOING TO BED! Set an alarm for 4 - 5 hours of sleep. Get up & use the bathroom.

YOU just might have to RETRAIN your bladder.

YOU also might have DIABETES! Get checked out by your Primary Care Physician IMMEDIATELY!

Answer 4

Do not drink water or any liquid food after 6:00 pm. Make a habit to pee (pass urine) before going to bed. Entrust some senior member of your family to wake up you at 2:00 am in order to pass urine. If these efforts fail, consult an urologist. He may sometimes prescribe a drug to reduce slow down the formation / excretion of urine at night.
Please see the webpage for more details on Bed wetting.

Answer 5

I think you must have a disability besides bed wetting if your mother is changing your diaper, so sorry for what ever is wrong, try to get your parents to take you to a Dr.
good luck, hope you are well soon.

Answer 6

My sister was like this til she was 16. She was diagnosed with chronic bladder infection. They gave her some meds and gave her a list of food/drink that will help and she stopped within a week. She gets it every once and a while but not like how bad it was before. Go to the doctor.

Answer 7

Their is medication for what you have.. It's called over-active bladder.. try going to a doctor.. also at the age of 14 im not sure why your mother would be changing your diaper? anyways goodluck

Answer 8

Ask your mother if she's thinks that you really like to have her change your diaper? Or if she thinks you like to bed wet? I hope she is more understanding to your needs

Answer 9

You only got on Yahoo yesterday. Somehow I don't believe you have this problem, but if you do, you could be taking care of your own diaper.

Answer 10

Sorry to hear this; you may have a serious medical condition, sometimes needing surgery or medication to correct. You should see your doctor as soon as you can. Have your dad take you, if you're more comfortable with him.