im a single dad of 2 kids and the ladies get truned off by this why is it they dont even take the time to get to know me
2006-08-23 22:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by grey_wolf54486 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe they cannot accept it.
if u ask me, i wldn't mind(but i just havent met one to really see the situation in a bigger picture)
2006-08-23 22:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people aren't willing or ready to date a guy or girl with children for many reasons.
Mostly, though, I think it's hard to walk into a relationship when another person has kids.
If the relationship becomes serious, the person not only takes on a new guy, but basically adopts a family.
Not only that, but the new girl will have to deal with the biological mother, and sometimes those situations are a mess.
Don't worry, some girl will come along who likes you and doesn't care if you have kids, you just need to have patience.
2006-08-23 22:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be very frank with u ,now u are responsible ....what is the point in knowing u ...becasue there is no opportunity for u becoming their husband any more ....even if u are ready to sacrifice ur kids and ur present wife for them it is not a gud way to do that ....so women will think ..it is a waste of time talking to u as well..and u should also understand this ..sorry to hurt u my dear friend..but ..this is bitter fact...and in this world there are lots of singles avilable ..who are ready to have fun with ..and take a lady anywhere they want ...and more ...which u know better than me....this is life ..accept it ...enjoy ..I still feel that u will find some gud women friend who are in ur situation....gud luck
2006-08-23 22:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by windside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls find it really intimidating to get into a relationship with kids involved already because it starts off really serious. There's no such thing as an impromptu night out with kids involved. Plus Alot of girls are afraid of being a mother too soon. It definatly won't be easy to find girl ready and willing to walk into a family, but I don't see it as impossible. Good luck to you!
2006-08-23 22:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You´ve met wrong type of ladies.. It is a great plus caring for your kids and there is no grater proof of good and emotional character.. Every normal woman would know to appreciate that..
2006-08-24 01:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by ssagittarius78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your meeting the wrong girls, most women think it's great, that your a good guy taking care of yur kids they love it and want in on the action!
2006-08-23 22:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so untrue.I am a parent,though they don't live with me,plenty of women like the fact that I am in thier lives.Is something wrong with ur kids or how u raise them?Try a single parent site.gotta love the web.
2006-08-23 23:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Divine 7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Single mums have it tough too. I'm my experience it's usually single mums and dads that end up together. If you know what i mean!
2006-08-23 22:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not you or your kids that make them run in the opposite direction...it's the ex wife/girlfriend (mom to your kids)
2006-08-23 22:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ladies think you wont have time 4 them
2006-08-23 22:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋