we're dating and we figured we should first let our parents get used the idea of us even being into girls before letting them know we're into eachother......if that makes sense. but will it be suspcious if we both do this around the same time? how long between would be good? oh, and how do I convince her to do it first.....j/k ;)
2006-08-23 22:46:12 · 21 answers · asked by carla here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yeah dont do it, just keep it a secret then when you and your mom's are getting drunk one night let them know and maybe you could have one huge crazy orgy!!
2006-08-23 22:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by -^-Smooth C-^- 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think your parents are going to ever get used to the idea that you and your step-sister are dating.
They will probably accept that the two of you are both "into girls," but I think it will cause a big family rift when they find out you are into each other.
I personally think you should find someone outside of your family (including your step family) that you are interested in. If something happens badly between you and your step-sister, it's just going to make things worse between everyone.
I guess if the two of you are set on "coming out" then I think you may as well shock your parents with the full truth, being you are both "into girls" and you are into each other.
2006-08-24 05:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First how old are you? Are you sure your totally into a lifestyle you are locked in to, you should just be content with the fun of experimenting, it really sounds fun does she live with you, i bet you guys are at it like maniacs when no one is home but that may change later it is like dating at work unless you qiut your job you will have to go back and face each other after the relationship goes sour, have you had a man yet they are just as equiped as girls but they have bonuses, "big" bonuses.
2006-08-24 13:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by SP Addict 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother and i came out at the same time. We're not together or anything like that. We decided to let him go first because he was viewed as the sweet one and then after they took it all in I told them about me. It took a while and they thought we were lying. Until they found out for them self's. Better all at one time, because they will have to deal with it longer and once it's out it's out no more surprises. Unless you go strait! So it's better now than later. Like if you get caught.
2006-08-24 05:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not right 2 convince her 2 do it first. its also not right 4 y'all 2 like each other but emotions cant be controlled. its not suspicious if y'all come out at the same time. it'll be stupid if y'all didn't. its gone be a tough though. lots of people may think y'all are eww, but go with the flow and get it over with.
2006-08-24 05:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by jamille 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I so hope that you're in no way related, I'm going to trust you on that fact because that's just wrong.
Secondly, I'd say do it pretty seperatly because I think that if you do it together the first thing they'll ask is "who with?" At least that way you won't have to drop two bombshells at once.
2006-08-24 05:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should be honest. why would you want her to go first, if you go second then you will get the fire line, because they will ask you all the questions. So go first! trust me. plus your pretty brave being with a chick, i think its awesome, though she is your step sis, lol at least she isnt your real sis!!!
2006-08-24 05:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by lz_baxter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hell they are going to being a little confused for a while anyways just go for it and deal with it at the same time ok
2006-08-24 07:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just strange..going out with a step-sibling
2006-08-24 05:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by georgia1980 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might as well come clean with it all, Honesty is the best policy.
2006-08-24 05:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your going to be honest then I would tell the entire story, go ahead and get it all out in the open and over with. They'll get over it eventually.
2006-08-24 05:52:51 · answer #11 · answered by yahooanswersgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋