We have been apart for a month now he is back in town but has to run his business at least that what he says he is sad that he can't make time to see me I have been wanting to call him alot but on the other hand i don't because he is busy and i feel like im getting in his way i'm really lonely now and feel lost without him Im crying alot more now and my symtoms are getting worst to the point where I don't know if im going to drop dead from stressing out about missing him I never argue with him and I definately want him to take care of his business but at the same time I want him to make time for me he is bad at calling me or texting me my girlfriends say he is out cheating on me but they don't know they don't know him he doesn't hesitate to answer phone when I call but I feel stupid for calling because i'm not checking up on him I just miss him because it's been so long since we have seen each other what should i do help SOS!
2006-08-23 22:46:05 · 24 answers · asked by sc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is unsure about what to do, stay with you and go for the business aswell, or maybe he just doesn't have enough time for you but can't let you go, call him say I am feeling neglected and I want to know if you want to carry on being in a realationship or do you want to concentrate souley on your business, but at the moment I am feeling sad, and it is not fair on both of us, to not spend anytime together, so ultimatum time, it will be tough but if it is meant to be he will put in more effort if not you will have to get over it, take time for yourself and don't talk about it all the time, and you will be fine
2006-08-23 22:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by orangebutterfly82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to calm down then when you've got yourself together, call him and say, babe, i know you are busy, but its been so long since i've seen you and i was hoping to spend just a bit of time with you.you gotta eat sometime so lets go out for supper.and then stay for as long as you said you will.
he's being really unfair on you, stringing you on like that, and not talking to you, you should tell him that, in a calm way. and say look, i miss you so much and i cant be with someone i can see. i really love you and i want to show you that.
if he doesnt respond, then girl i'm sorry
2006-08-24 05:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to him about how you feel.
Although he may be very busy running his business, if you are important in his life, he should be able to find time to squeeze in at least one date a week, I would think.
Tell him how much you miss him, and that you'd like to start making a date once a week on a certain day for even just an hour.
If he isn't interested in at least trying to do that, then I'd say it's time for you to move on.
2006-08-24 05:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being, its called a BUG A BOO, seems like it to me cause if he cant handle you as his girl and his business, then you need to find someone that has time for you cause you aint never supposed to wonder about your man especially not for a month, dont sound like he's your man to me. business must be f'd up or someone else is throwing him off his square, if he cant call you and at least say hey hoe i'm still alive, or at least do something you like even if its another man, who will turn those tears pain into tears of joy
i'm just saying
if you aint ugly, find some one who has time for you
wipe those tears away, cause trust and believe they come a dime a dozen, (men that is)
2006-08-24 05:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by mstoomuch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey..i feel so bad for you...
He doesn't feel the same way...if he was as into you as you are to him, he'd at least make 5 minutes for you....even just to (you know what)...
He's cowardly trying to get rid of you.....you have 2 choices, take the hint and deal with the pain...(nothing in breaking up is fun) or push him to keep you around and become his steady side piece while he pursues whatever woman he's tring to get at now.
2006-08-24 05:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by FavoredbyU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That relationship is like a subject you had in school, it's called History! Move on you will be a stronger person in the long run, don't beat your self up with someone who can't even tell you the truth.
2006-08-24 05:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be cheating
but when was little my dad had is own business and he had a heart attack cause it was so stressful and he was NEVER home..always at the business
dont be so quick to conclusions..call him and just say i miss you and i want to do something...
or better yet visit him..but that could be a bad choice...some guys dont like their gf's to visit.
or if you have a gut feeling that hes cheating then ask him...it doesnt hurt to ask..
good luck babe!
2006-08-24 05:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
havent u heard about a book called "hes just not into u",,buy it,,u need it
if u want something that'll work...dont call him..act as busy as he is,,dont show ur emotions..if he is remotley interested it will attract him..dont show how bad u feel untill he s free (or when he says hes become free)
bottom line is i dont think u should show some1 any broken hearts if hes not showing attention..trust me my bf,,, sometimes doesnt have time to sleep but manages to call me every day for 2 min,,at least
2006-08-24 05:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by lollypop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! when i read your situation, it sounds exactly like mine. I'm suffering from the same fate., though i haven't seen him in about two weeks and i miss him like crazy. I have been crying too and feeling depressed about it but i don't want to bother him coz he is busy! i guess the only thing is to tell him that you're missing him and it's causing distress! I'm goin to tell mine bf this weekend too when i see him,
2006-08-24 05:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is absolutely a bad situation of sadness, I have been felled like you but I want to say for you to be patience even it`s will get a pain to you but believe me that this pain will chanched to happy time on day ..
2006-08-24 05:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by Steviana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋