I liked this girl really badly. i started talking to her and everything was going well until my friend asked what she thought of me. She liked me as a friend. The words you hate to hear. How can i get into a relationship with this girl or is it too late. I am not very good with relationships. Should i just ask her out or would that ruin our friendship. I would rather be her friend than nothing at all.
What should i do????
2006-08-23 22:27:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she is attracted to u too, but is just shy to admit. try to take a step further by doing things for her, that can show that u like her. try to go out with her, i mean only the two of u,. be more sensitive to her needs, make sure she knows that u'll protect her n always be by her side. from that i think she'll be able to sense how u feel about her.
2006-08-23 22:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by nini moreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how old would you two be? Teenagers?
I think any girl will say "We are friends" in front of her friend, if she's not sure what you feel, and you are in front of them.
She obviously won't say "I like him. I want to have a date with this guy". Even though it's the 21st century, it's always the men's job to move the first step for asking out.
If you have feelings for her, being a friend is maybe worse than being nothing, cuz you can't move forward and you're stuck!
I would suggest you to ask her out on a lunch, an easy date, and start showing that you want to be with her more.
2006-08-24 05:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one, if you're using the thing called the phone to talk to her for one - STOP. You must ignore her. Pretend like she isn't even there. The more you talk to her, the more she will think she can come to you for advice - and that means friend advice. Next, plan a day to meet with her and then make small advances. Touch her in the lower of the back, just above the butt, and grab her hand and put it in yours. Smile at her and try to gleam in her eyes and look away to let her know you think of her as someone sexual. Next, you want to seal the deal... you've been around her and she has had the chance to see you (hopefully you dressed clean, and smelled even better, and you're hair was in place and you said the right things ..) you want to land a peck on her neck goodbye. That's right the neck - it is the sensual zone. From there she will grab you back and wait for you to entice the lips. Its true. Good luck bro.
2006-08-24 05:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by No way man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she liked you as more than a friend, she would've hinted a little to your friend. Her telling your friend that is just easier for her rather than having to tell you herself. I was in this situation. I talked to this guy every night on the phone and hung out with him all the time, but would never look at him in that way, even though he was really sweet and liked me alot.
2006-08-24 10:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the frd which asked wht she think about u more to get to know which kind of boy does she like, try to be the type of boy she likes by not changing urself TOO MUCH or else it wont be u, as she likes u as a frd, y not ask her out, but dun giv her too much pressure, ask her out normally, giv her a lil bit space, u can buy her a little gift(not crappy but not too expensive, like earrings, a box of chocolate but dun pretend like u want her to be ur girlfiend) she could bring along wif some of her frds, dun act like u mind. most importantly, dun giv her too much pressure or else she will definitely gonna 'avoid' u
2006-08-24 05:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by en s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no return from the friendship zone.
2006-08-24 05:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off since u did go tooo far .... you have to come out with it and ask her out . imo soo gl if its meant to be itll be :D
2006-08-24 05:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋