Who can help me ,i'm a gay?

Question

I just can't help my self ,I want normal life ,what should I do???

Answer 1

you should not tell people your gay

Answer 2

Search your heart and soul. Do you really believe that you can't change from being a gay to being a man? Don't you have even that slightest feeling of liking for women?

I believe that a gay who wants to be a man only needs determination and understanding from the people around him so that it will be easier for him to attain his goal. He should not be an outcast or nobody should ostracize him for being so for this attitude towards gays would only make them feel that they are not wanted in their own societies.

But if you think you'd rather be a gay because you really cannot change yourself into a man, and because your heart feels that you are a woman, well then, just continue living as you are without any feeling of insecurity or regret for your being so. Respect yourself and don't do things that will only degrade your personality. Love yourself for who and what you are for if you want to be loved, you must learn to love yourself first. And most of all, live a decent life filled with confidence by believing in your heart that everyone in this world deserves love, compassion, support and understanding from those people around him no matter what his gender is. Good luck.

Answer 3

You are normal. I don't understand why people think that being gay is abnormal. From what I've seen and friends I have who are gay they all want the same things as so called straights.
Home
Partner
Kids(?)
Pet
Good job
Holidays
Clothes
Shoes
Food

So where are you so different in all of this. Now you can even have a civil union which I find that most M/F couples have too.

Answer 4

nobody has a normal life...if u r gay, accept it. there's nothing u can do to change it, so just live with it. i have lots of gay friends, n its fun to be around them. u should just accept the fact. only then will u be able to live normally. everybody got their own weaknesses n good points. dont worry too much k?

Answer 5

You were born to be what you are, but it is still up to you whether you choose to express your desires. There are currently five sexual orientations, one of which is the attraction to children. Persons with that orientation are expected to control their desires, so that says it is possible. Yes, being gay, or any of the other three orientations is a sin in the eyes of God, but he did give you the right of freewill to make your own choices in life. If you want to be in his favor, than you know what choices you need to make. If that doesn't matter to you, than make what choice you want. And don't let any self-proclaimed Christian tell you that what you are doing it worse that the wilfull sins they are committing. It took only one sin for Moses to be denied access to the Promise Land. But, was it what he did, or was it that he presumed it wouldn't matter?

Answer 6

Start your day with one hour jogging and light exercises . Freshen up and sit for one hour to do meditation . You will be alright in 30 days . Try for 3 days and find the difference in your self confidence and will power .

Answer 7

Darlin there is nothing wrong with being gay. a friend of mine killed himself because he felt he couldnt tell his family. it broke my heart. all i can say is live ur life and be happy with who makes you happy. if u have support from family and friends then just be you. take no notice of the arseholes who seem to think its ok to ruin peoples lives.

Answer 8

NOBODY CAN HELP U, but your self, nobody can take care of you like you can, and besides, its your life, just remember its not what you do its how you do it, so be the best biznitch out there, you go

Answer 9

Who said gays dont have normal lives?

Answer 10

just lead a normal life, I will treat you as normal.

Answer 11

If you are gay, then gay is normal for you.
Don't sweat it.
You;ll be ok