Alright, so I used to be crazy about the guy named Zach... Absolutely crazy about him. I was in love with him (still am in the back of my mind but he can't know that). Problem is, Zach has a best friend, who hates me. She used to be like my best friend. I introduced them, you know? There is another problem though. I've liked this other guy for like the same amount of time. He has a girlfriend right now though. What should I do? I used to talk to him all the time, and now that she's his friend and hates me, i havent talked to him since Summer Vacation (school already started for us) PLEASE HELP ME! dont saw stuff like screw them or anything because i cant. ive been driven crazy over, well, THEM!!!
2006-08-23 20:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ HeartStolen ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO u guys dont get it! he told me i said stuff i DIDNT say! and he believed me! but now i think theyre going out and its soo hard for me. i CANT give him up its wayy to hard! it doesnt happen like that!
2006-08-23 20:50:46 · update #1
if he has a girlfriend, then that means he is moving and and you need to too. i know how hard it is to get over someone you feel that way about, but as hard as it is, time will heal all wounds. when that happened to me i was so depressed and felt like pulling all of my hair out because i was so stressed and felt so useless, i thought i could never love again, but here i am now, married and have a beautiful 8 month old daughter and one on the way. if i would have know then, when i was so sad, how happy i would be now, i would have never cried so many tears and felt so much pain. just hang on tight and love will come your way, and soon, you wont even care about him anymore.
2006-08-24 10:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be in a relationship with someone who's not loyal to you, right? If he's not into you enough to stay in touch, even as a friend, or not let another girl influence his feelings, he's not worth your time. I know this sucks, it really does, obviously you're into him and feel like it could've worked if it hadn't been for your friend. You're giving them all the power though, because you feel like you can't do anything about it and are helpless. What you can do is decide to move on, and not care so much about your ex-friend or this guy. It's not what you wish would happen, but it's a step in the right direction. By deciding that you don't care about them, you take all their power over you away. I'm not saying you can't be friends, just don't depend on them liking you to be happy, whatever happens - happens.
2006-08-24 04:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by onthesly27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look heres how i see it if u really like the guy u should try ur hardest to get him to realize that and if the girl dosent like u there is nothin u can do but take it as u go but dont let it get u down. As for the guy u like that has a girlfreind u should wait it out sooner or later they will break up and im not sayin u need to be the rebound u just take the time gettin to kno him now so when hes over her u will look so much better.
2006-08-24 03:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Khayman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved him so much what happened?Why are you 2 not tog anymore?Id leave him alone sounds like to me he is over you.I know you hate hearing that but move on your only hurting yourself.If he loved you he wouldnt be with another girl and he def wouldnt go without talking to you>I dont care how much this other girl hated you its his feelings not hers and if he wanted you he wouldnt care if she hated you or not.Quit blaming her she cant control him!Its how he feels and its what he wants.Like the old saying goes set him free and if he comes back it was meant to be and if it doesnt it never was.Good luck and put the blame where it rightly goes ,on him!
2006-08-24 03:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sweetie. Why be miserable life is to short always remember one thing. Never sell yourself short on happiness. There is someone out there for you. Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-24 03:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him if he were to chose you or her and if you get turned down email me ill be your best friend and help you out when ever you need help ok.because ive been there and got turned down so dont be afraid to get turned down and if not ill still be your friend.
2006-08-24 03:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by brad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better leave them for some time
2006-08-24 03:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on complicated life
2006-08-24 03:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋