Like this girl, heres the circumstances, I need advice.?

Question

I met this girl one morning, we sat and talked for a few hours about life etc, We kinda clicked right from the start, the next day I got her number and called her, we talked for 5 hours on the phone. For the following 2 weeks we kind of back and forth 20-30 minute calls about once a day. Except she'd say she'd call me back and usually never did because she said she got doing other things and forgot.

scheduled a time to meet up,she didnt show, she went somewhere else with a friend and never told me until I called to ask what happened.No explanation.
We scheduled another time,she didnt show, because her ride ditched on her.
set up another time,this time she showed up, it started off with a lot of silence but by the end of it we had kissed and cuddled and all of that and she said she really liked it and she had butterflies etc.She got called in for work for the next 2 weeks,long shifts .Talked once for very few minutes in the last few days.Even now she still forgets to call me back.help?

Answer 1

Sounds like a ditz. Next time you get together, slip her the hot sausage. She'll have forgotten it by the next day.

Answer 2

This is not gonna be the answer you will choose as best answer coz im not gonna say what you wanna hear.

Leave her alone. She isn't interested. That's all there is to it. Im a busy girl, I do this and act this way towards guys all the time. Truth is, im too gutless to do the right thing and just be honest and tell them to go away! So, i'll like say, yeah i'll call ya in a couple of hours and never do. If they call my mobile and their number is showing, i just dont answer, etc coz I dont wanna speak to them. If they finally do get through (by with holding their number or something) or if i run into them, I'll have long conversations and talk to be nice but maybe, just maybe, I just wanna be their friend and nothing more. Some people just cant seem to get this. They think if i so much as smile at them, they're in. Its wrong.

Ignore her and try to move on, maybe in the mean time that'll make her come running.

Answer 3

Your initial calls must have made her think that you are all over her. You have to maintain a distance so that she knows you cannot be taken for granted, like not showing up three times, and actually not sweet enuff to call you and tell you she cant make it. Cant you really get it, and see it for yourself ?? She said '''she got doing other things and FORGOT'' !!! And you still went waiting for her, didnt you ? Drop the whole idea, and maintain your dignity to a certain extent. Keep aloof, and if she really cares she would understand that you are hurt she stood you up, and come talking to you. If she doesnt, and conveniently forgetscalling you in teh coming two - three days, forget her. I am sure you'd find someone with some feelings for you, and is genuinely interested in you.

Good luck

Answer 4

maybe she is not ready for a commitment, or maybe she is just busy, i know when i don't call a guy back it is usually 1 I'm not that interested, and i don't want to make time for them, or 2 i am just playing a game because i want the guy to be old fashion and chase me. ask her if she wants to go out with you but be confident like it really doesn't matter if she does or doesn't, girls want a man who is secure not having to have a women that is a turn on, you should be able to take her or leave her, stand up for yourself and tell her if she cancels on you again you are not going to call her again, women like men who stand up for themselves don't let her walk all over you, make her respect you, hang out with your guy friends so you don't think about her, women like a challenge too

Answer 5

she really does not like you sorry she is just playing games with you walk away while you are ahead sorry

Answer 6

she is just fooling u waik up budddy u r spoiling ur life...

Answer 7

talk to her

Answer 8

ask her to be honest with you