she doesnt like it.....how can i coax her into maybe giving it a try....i myself am looking to experiment...i love her soooo much...i want to beable to have her everywhere....and if u think im just a sex fiend u wrong....cause me and her have tried everything..3some....every postion...even crazy locations...any info would be cool..
2006-08-23 19:38:12 · 21 answers · asked by xXxSmartGuyxXx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know!! You do it first and show her how much you like it!!!
2006-08-23 19:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
okay, lemme ask u a question. would YOU take it up ur anus? If you dont want to, dont expect anyone else to. simple as that. also, the first time you have anal sex is supposed to hurt worse than loosing your virginity. and it hurts when u b.m. if the skin tears too much, which can cause an infection. there ARE health risks included in this increasingly popular sex technique, but most people dont realize that they exist just as much as in normal intercourse.
Another thing: if you have a larger penis, it'll hurt more and the chance of the anal tissue tearing and an infection occuring increases.
Also, some women just dont like it. Big deal. thats how it goes.
2006-08-24 02:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cynnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look man, if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to. Consider yourself lucky she's let you get away with everything else! Back off, you shouldn't have to "coax" somebody you love into doing something that will (by the way) ONLY be pleasurable for you.
2006-08-24 02:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A dirty question you should not ask. You was born as a human not a beast.We need a clean an moral society and civilize thought and behavior, not evil-minded bad person like you on our earth.
2006-08-24 02:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by pyj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the urge to control her UP!!!!! It hurts and if she doesn't want it there then don't push it because she won't enjoy it. If you care about HER, leave the subject alone and pursue the many other ways that there are to enjoy each other. some fantasies are better left fantasies.
2006-08-24 02:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her... then really listen to why she doesn't want it. She may give you the clues you need to alter your approach so it's good for both of you.
After she's been listened to (and I mean listened to, not simply 'uh huh... yes, dear')... then if you still want it, and you've really thought about what she said, explain why you want to try, and give her time to think about what you've said. Don't push her about it (it sounds like she's very adventurous anyway, so maybe what she needs is simply enough time to get used to the idea)...
2006-08-24 02:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberley Mc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use Plenty of an Anal-type lube before even Trying it!
2006-08-24 02:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For most women this is very painful. Use lots of lube, pay lots of attention to her, and gently start touching the "area". The more you play with it, the more she will like it. Just remember, it can be VERY painful for some women.
2006-08-24 02:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kalighe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Singapore Switch.
2006-08-24 02:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by soliberating 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Keep at her. I wish I had when I was younger. My present girl would ,she is only 30 but im much older and now it bends in the middle but I still get to give it to her doggy style while she is in that position
2006-08-24 02:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by Heart B 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
mate if u luv her that much then don't do it , don't force something that she doesn't wanna do... try to let go oh who knows maybe in time she d might do it cause of your patience and understanding.
respect mate if u say u luv her!
2006-08-24 02:43:08 · answer #11 · answered by Blue_Dragon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋