i'm 17 i have a bf he is 21.and my parents d't like my bf.i love him so much.they d't let me to have him.tell me what i have to do?should we have to run away?
2006-08-23 19:31:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Listen to your parents. THEY actually DO know what is BEST for you right now! Take things easy with the Boy Friend! You have LOTS of GROWING UP TO DO!
2006-08-23 19:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do your parents have agoinst him? Try to remember that your parents have been looking out for you and have your best interesst in mind. Try to stand back and see things from their perspective.
On the other hand, can they see what you see in the BF? Maybe you should really try to understand their view AND you can try to help them to see yours. Hopefully you'll come to an understanding.
Beyond that, obey your parents. You are almost old enough to make these kinds of decisions on your own, but not quit yet. If you run away with this boy, your parents will have been right. Running away is not in your best interest and if the BF supports it, well, he doesn't really care about your best interest.
If your love is true, than it will last long enough for you to be able to make the decision to act on it in a responsible way, when you have finished school and come of age.
Besides, 17 and 21? If YOU really care about HIM you'll keep in mind that he could get into trouble over having a relationship with you. True love can endure a pause, if it has to. My husband's work takes him away for long periods of time, and the old saying is true for us: "absence makes the heart grow fonder."
2006-08-24 02:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by theinfalliblenena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you turn 18.That's one thing as an adult you'll learn is do the right thing.You already know what is.Most of all remember one thing if you love him that much that "17 will get you 70" year's that is,
2006-08-24 02:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by cjett63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have loved you for many years and made a many sacrifices for you and its now your chance to make sacrifies they think bad for you they must be right you should discuss with them and solve the problem they have given you each and everything you wanted and now in return you have to give them some thing and i thing your too small for all this things now its up to UUUUUUU AND ONLY YYYYOOOOUUUUU
2006-08-24 02:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is your rush? You have the rest of your life to be with your love. Do you know what can happen if you run off and they catch you?? You won't even get to see your bf. Much less hurting your family. Be patient.
2006-08-24 02:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mav 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He should be mature enough to wait until you are 18 before he dates you. Running away will only get you into trouble and him put behind bars.
2006-08-24 02:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by crackerjaxs 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just wait till you are 18 before thinking anything. That way you can legally have the right to do anything you want, with anyone you want!!!!
2006-08-24 02:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for the right age , Almighty will bless you with courage to have patience to wait .Patience always pays good dividends .
2006-08-24 02:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no never run away because then your parents would think he was a bad guy. you just have to tell him that he need to prove himself good enough in front of your parents so they might beleive that he is accually a good guy. your parents just ned to get to know him a little better.
2006-08-24 02:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by brad 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont run away thatd be stupid talk to your parents about it
if you already have just give it time either they will come around or he will leave time solves everything in the end
2006-08-24 02:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by scatter 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋