i want to cry riht now im in a bad situation! its with a guy.. hes a good guy friend and i really like him. we liked each other like 3 months ago but then he said he didnt like me anymore and i had sorta gotten over him too. but now i really want hi back. and i feel like i am not good enough.. but in the kind of way not wheer he doesnt like you, but where he wouldnt consider you a frind in that way .. hes athletic, funny, kind, TAN and hes my good friend but i cant tell him i still like him becasue i know for positive he doesnt like me anymore! any ways u guys could help me get over him or anything like that ?? please!
2006-08-23 19:29:14 · 41 answers · asked by The Lovely Ladies of Soccer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the major problem with talking to him is that when we first tld each other we liked each other, he told me that he didnt want to start anything serious.. i knew what he meant at the time, but nw im starting to wonder if he was just messing with me and im beggining to see how stupid i was being so oblivious to what he was saying .. shoot that makes me wanna cry.....oh great my eyes are welling up ill talk to u guys later
2006-08-23 19:54:41 · update #1
let him go. Go on with yourself, If he wanted you bad enough, he would have shown it by now. You deserve to be happy with someone that appreciates you. Go on, it will happen.
2006-08-23 19:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by watersprings 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just by saying you are not good enough scares me. You should never put a man ahead of you---a man is supposed to love you and treat you like the queen that you are---don't ever forget that. Let him be friend---find someone who is going to display affection and love for you---you shouldn't have to hunt it down. If you like him that much tell him--if he feels the same great, if not move on ---the right person is out there for you. Feelings don't turn on and off---so be cautious getting involved with someone who said they like you one minute/then they dont the next. Men want someone who is confident about themselves---be a diva girl, because a man should alway treat you like you come first. Good luck!
2006-08-23 19:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well from what my best friend has told me, who is a guy, guys just dont get over girls, even when they say they do. try something cute to get his attention. i mean like go hang out with him as a friend. like at a park and go play a sport so you have a reason to laugh and be flirty. i can tell you a guy just does not get over a girl. but by the end of the day i personally would sit down and just kinda either talk to him or do what i would do which would on a football or an object with his favortie sport, write him a note on it for example. if he likes football on the football write. i really still like you, a second chance please? and throw him the ball and be like i think somethings on the ball....can you check it out...
2006-08-23 19:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn the hard lesson of moving on and chalk this up to experience. I am not being flippant, but there's nothing like time to heal a broken heart. As you move on keep your eyes open, guard your heart a little bit (not too much). Also, ask yourself what you are looking for in a guy but only in terms of you and no one else.
2006-08-23 19:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is time!And what would really help you out is to stay away from him as much as possible till you got over him!Cause the more you are around him the more your going to want him and its going to hurt knowing you cant.It will get easy with time and maybe by then you have moved on and are with someone else.Good luck!
2006-08-23 19:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steer clear of him until you can get over him, it's easier like that, it may be a bit hard at first but it's the best way. When you're over him, then maybe you can hang out again but for now, keep away.
2006-08-31 11:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, you're young so just relax. You have the rest of your life to worry about a guy. It's just one guy and will most likely not come out with any amazing and life-changing outcome.
Just relax. Life is good, if you spend your time worrying you're missing the point!
2006-08-23 19:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe in yourself and know that he is not worth your tears and never meant to be. remember you cannot make a man to love you if he doesn't but if he likes you as a friend respect that , if you cannot handle it, remit your visitation , meeting with him, stop seeing him as a friend if he ask you , why tell him because you like him more then Friend and who knows, he may feel the same way again. do not cry over him , he may see you weak.
2006-08-23 19:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a situation similar to this. My best guy friend and I dated for almost 6 months, and then he broke my heart. Totally ignoring him for about 6 months helped a lot. Its hard to get over someone if you are constantly seeing them.
2006-08-23 19:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by PenguinMoose 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well shorten this down a little and just except him as a friend and go from there. He may change his mind he might not. Just give it time and maybe you will meet someone else in the near future.
2006-08-23 19:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by peacocktrail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
helloo!
You need enlightenment. He is just a guy, not your boss or something that's not gonna provide you a job so that you dont survive. Calm down and be natural. Don't fall for him unless he starts liking you back. Just try to be more confident and look beautiful, so that he regrets
2006-08-23 19:33:17 · answer #11 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋