2006-08-23 19:28:33 · 16 answers · asked by Flexscan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it the more it eludes from you. But if you just let it fly it will come to you when you least expect it.
Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.
So take your time and choose the best.
2006-08-23 19:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sky Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If it's true love, then it doesn't matter whether s/he loves you or not. I'm talking about the kind of love that you want to treat with respect because it has a life of its own. If you have that, you will not even feel the need to 'make yourself look at other people'. You will have your own life, you will love everyone pretty much the same, so it won't be that you are just sitting pining away for your beloved. When you are with your beloved, you will forget the hard things s/he has said to you because you will be so happy to be with the one you love.
And perhaps you will look at the situation, see that humanly speaking it is 'impossible' for you to be together - and then say, 'But with God all things are possible' (Matthew 19:26). And then maybe after the better part of a year you might get a little impatient seeing no concrete answer, and yet s/he isn't seeing anyone else either - of course it's a different matter if s/he is - so anyway, you can pray:
God, I have delighted myself in You, and that means I will have the desire of my heart - You, above all. I have committed my way to You and trusted in You, that you will do this for me: that my righteousness will shine like the dawn, the justice of my cause like the noonday sun (Psalm 37:4-6). So here's my question for You: when is it finally going to dawn on him/her?
God will indeed answer such a prayer. We have to be willing to take whatever answer He gives us - because our beloved may or may not in fact be 'the right person' - but He is able to make it dawn on our beloved that we love him/her. I know - nearly a year ago, he (let's call him M) rejected my marriage proposal and didn't want to even talk about 'us' anymore. But then... suddenly it turned out that M wanted to know whether I really love him, and that 'we' are now a pleasant topic of conversation. Needless to say, I'm *really* looking forward to see what God will have for us when my beloved returns from vacation...
2006-08-24 03:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if they don't love you then don't waste your time. Move on in the world. There is more out there than people who don't love you! Stop looking and just be friends that is the way to make sure you are not shopping in the wrong way.
2006-08-24 02:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by peacocktrail 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not worth waiting for someone who has said they do not love you because they will never love you even if you wait so move on
2006-08-24 02:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by melthule 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well I wouldnt think so. I would move on. As Jessica Simpson said: "there are plenty of chickens in the sea."
2006-08-24 02:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait for what? To be rejected again. Forget about it!!
2006-08-24 02:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. i don't think so. i would not want to continue wasting my precious youth or time waiting for someone to love me.
2006-08-24 02:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no good reason for waiting...so move on as quick as you can!!
2006-08-24 02:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now how long into the relationship was this? if it was less than a month, give it time, any longer, move on.
2006-08-24 02:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope, why waste the time?
2006-08-24 02:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by tikitiki 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋