what if you make a decision that's best for you but hurts everyone else in your life??
2006-08-23 19:22:50 · 6 answers · asked by kerry m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do it
2006-08-23 19:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure about your decision. You cant always please everyone - many times not even your closest person, because every people have their own needs and interests. I think as long as you know that it's a good decision and realize that it's the right thing to do - then go for it. I'm not saying that you'll make the right decision, but that's life. As time goes by - people will understand. And even if they dont, you know that you make that decision because you do what you think is right. No one can really blame you for that except yourself. And it is hard - but we have to admit that we made mistakes. I myself made lots of them. But learn from it and go on. Everything in this world happens for a purpose. Even the mistakes and the pains. So, good luck!
2006-08-24 04:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by cnds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life sucks doesn't it. I am in my late 20's and currently live in the San Francisco Bay Area. I am the last child in the family and I have a pretty big family where all my brothers' and sister's families live nearby. They depend heavily on me on pretty much everything except for financials. I bring life to them and I breath life into them. The thing is, I want to move down to LA because I want to live in a place where there's more happening and possibly going back to school, UCLA in mind. The catch here is, one of my brother's family, who I help out the most, doesn't really appreciate the stuff I've done for them and not only that, they talk just so much **** behind my back, but he depends heavily on me. Always calls me only AND ONLY he needs something done that he's not able to do. And try to sugarcoat things like everything's perfectly fine. Not only that, he successfully brainwashes his wife and kids to think that I'm a lowly animal. Needless to say I feel betrayed and way disappointed. His family is the main part of the reason why I wanted to move away. The trouble here is that if I move away, I know they will be hurt (not emotionally of course) because there's no one around there for them. Not only that, I will hurt the rest of my family, who still love me, I think.
2006-08-24 02:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is part of our lives and move on and do the right things, People always look for other people for they own justification but it is up to you to make the right decision. if you feel it is the right for you and you make it then it is right
2006-08-24 02:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best thing is the hardest thing to do.
Without knowing what the issue is it is hard to help you
2006-08-24 02:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you take a minute and think about it..
dont be selfish..the rest is up to you.
2006-08-24 02:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋