Im dating keith for almost 3 years now, i met him through his brother, james, we went out a few times but i was only 14 and too nervous to date him so i ended it. I cried myself to sleep @night for a month. james been dating until recently and we've been talking a lot mroe. After i dated keith, we kinda grew apart. I still like him after 4 years. what do i do? Stay with my boyfriend, who i can't see myself w.o. not cuz i lvoe him but cuz hes my bf and how could he not be in my life. does james like me? is it possible after all this time, i mean im his brother's gf. Though he has been acting strange lately. Hes been talking to me on AIM a lot which he never did and someitmes we get these moments where our eyes meet. And its just us fora second, but its absolutely perfect, i can't help but smile. he's the hottest guy i no and has the perfect personality and is sucha badboy. what do i do? go on jerry springer? lol. im sucha mess! but i can't just forget, i've tried, for 4 yrs!
2006-08-23 19:10:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Michelle. Don't cheapen yourself by bouncing around between brothers. Do you want your b/f or not? Why would you take a chance of ruining their relationship or trust? Good luck
2006-08-31 19:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself, you are not matured at all to have or be in a relationship. You have a bf, but you are inlove with his brother?! God. newayz, my advice is to stop judging people from how they look or how cool they are. You are not inlove with his brother, you are infactuated in with him. You are flirting with him, at the same time on the way to cheat on your bf with his own brother. Ask yourself, what is so good about keith's brother? Does he loves you? You have a bf that loves you, and still thinking about a guy u liked 4 years ago.
This is what happens to people who liked someone, try to move, get into a relationship, but when the past came back, you just jump back into the arms of that guy. Next time, when you like someone, just tell that person ok. So that you get it off your chest and get it done with. If you dont take risk, you lose either way.
Now, you are stuck in a problem which what way you choose, hurts one of them. Or maybe hurt the both of them. Its your choice to make. Do the right thing. Think hard and properly. Remember, doesnt mean someone you love alot will love you as much as you love them. Sometimes, its just better to be with someone who loves you, coz you know then they wont hurt you.
Good luck.
2006-08-24 02:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...major trouble...cant think what i wouldve done in your situ...
i guess wait till m sure of my feelings...
but then its kind of a no win situ if you really have feelings for james...
it just might be that you need some change in ur relationship...coz after 3 yrs things do seem a lil dull
whatever happens think as a level headed person and dont take any rash steps...u r just 18 you have a whole life ahead of u...
2006-08-24 02:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by v v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either stay with Keith or don't date either of them. Don't work your way through the family!
2006-09-01 01:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a bad thing.. you dont go from one brother to the next.. thats wrong..
how weird would that make all three of you feel.... i have a rule i dont take my friends ex's or my ex's brothers or cousins or friends. it just makes for a weird situation and it kind of sucks
2006-08-24 02:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by chick_on_a_stick69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that gross switching from brother, to brother.
I doubt that ur bf's brother likes you as more than just a piece of @ss, but do what you want. its your life
2006-08-24 02:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that a question or an essay?
2006-08-24 02:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by justafriend 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋