I've been friends with benefits with one my closest guy friends...we've probably been messing around for about 5 months or so now. Many people would ask us if we were dating, but we always answered that we were "just friends". He said that never messed around with anyone else during the whole 5 months that we've been doing this...and the same goes for me. We were almost "together" without really being together, if that makes sense. Well...this friend of mine called me last night to tell me that he might be getting back together with his ex-girlfriend...and I'm super-crushed! I don't really have huge feelings for him, but I just don't want our relationship to change...because we are close friends who had the best time hanging out...who would just happen to end up fooling around at the of the night....So, am I overreacting to this or should I just get over it and move on? Thanks for your advice!!!
2006-08-23 18:55:35 · 7 answers · asked by novella_muse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the best thing to do is just let it go, becoming friends with benefits is taking a huge risk at changing the friendship and that's what happened. If you can be ok with him not giving you the "benefits" and him having a girlfriend, then hey be there and support your friend. If you can't do that then it's time to let it go..........
2006-08-23 19:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by PButta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be jealous, your just friends remember...and if you tell him that you still want to have the same benifits that you two enjoy now, I'll bet that he will go for that idea, as long as you dont tell the new/old gf....if not, just find another friend with benifits, we all need one of them.....
2006-08-23 19:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-08-23 18:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are over reacting to this he didnt say anything would change
but I think you should evaluate why you want to be a friend for sex without hope of commitment
2006-08-27 16:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just gotta let it go for now. Your benefits have been suspended.
2006-08-23 18:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by markgrinny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have had a friend with benefits,we enjoyed each other's company i was up front with leting her know i could not love her.
2006-08-23 19:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by djf103 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u both deserve a real relation so move on & wish him luck
2006-08-23 19:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋