do you think it may hurt him or dis satisfy his sex pleasure?
2006-08-23 18:37:38 · 12 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
There is nothing wrong with watching 'Adult' movies with a partner as long as both parties are mutual, consenting and comfortable with it.
If you do not want to do it, are not comfortable with it or are just not into it. It would tell him. Perhaps you could even barter for it, for example. If you do that thing I like to me 5 times then I will watch a movie with you....etc.
Just an idea...
2006-08-23 18:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not hurting him in any way. You are trying to keep your self respect and dignity, afterall, all chicks in the xxx movies are sluts, you r not a s l u t...you are a lady, a dignified lady.
You can perform your sexual fantasies and styles wth you bf based on you not others. Maybe he likes to watch because its a guy thing, we all love to watch, but with my gf, all the time, i would be ashamed myself, sometimes its ok, but all the time, no way....
Watching xxx movies wth gf increases the arousal level in males...they need some external support in arousing the 'mini-me' hehhehehe
2006-08-24 01:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its hurting him & you...He's going to need it more & more. You say no because you know its wrong & wierd!
He's too lazy to get romantic and treat you with the intimacy and LOVE you deserve! He's not interested in what you need or whats best for the both of you.
He's hoping to justify his behavior by your stamp of approval -which is you agreeing to watch it too.
Seriously think about getting a new boyfriend !!!
2006-08-24 01:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by critiqueit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever swings your boat, girlfriend. If watching x-rated movies turn you on go for it. I believe that he might be pleasantly surpriced if he is a level headed guy, some guys are very intimidated with women who enjoy watching "guy movies". I bet you know which one he will be... :)
2006-08-24 01:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by girl_with_horns79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. It is possible for him to be guilty because you say no. He may think you disapprove of him and go into hiding with his movies.
Do you know why you are saying no to it?
2006-08-24 01:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by sistermoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no aversion to alcohol, have a couple drinks with your man, then turn on the porn.. and get busy while it's playing.. it can be a real turn on ~ Enjoy! ~
2006-08-24 01:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, im not comfortable watching porn with my boyfriend either. It makes me feel really "exposed" and stuff, especially b/c we are expected to keep those kinds of things private and in our "inner" selves.
2006-08-24 01:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mariya F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey if you and he like it, enjoy it! You may learn some interesting techniques, heyy!
2006-08-24 01:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by adrianj_518 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he'll be fine, but if you like to, then why don't you.
2006-08-24 01:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by teeniey37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like it then let him know.....he'll appreciate the honesty and love you more for your kinkiness.
2006-08-24 01:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by Betty Sue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋