what steps would you take to help your son who is transgender to be a girl
2006-08-23 17:47:04 · 9 answers · asked by jesse b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
First I have to say one thing!!!
Good for you!!!!!!!
It is so nice to hear a parent that wants to help!
I think you are doing the most important thing, loving and accepting!
I am sort of an adopted mom to a couple of girls, who's family has nothing to do with them.
I don't know exactly what steps to take. But you are on the right track!
Giver her a hug for me!!
2006-08-23 17:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by suequek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are already taking the first step by being a supportive loving parent. Maybe try taking him for counseling to make sure this is what he truly wants before going any further. Good luck
2006-08-24 04:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer will likely not be well-received by you, but, I wouldn't help him. He was born a male. The Bible says God knew every hair on your head while still in the womb. He created and planned who your son would be. God doesn't make mistakes. Occasionally our bodies (mothers) makes mistakes and babies end up with serious disabilities or problems, but that isn't God's plan, that's consequences of things in our bodies. God designed him as male, and no matter what clothes, or gender he purchases to put himself into, he will forever be a male to God. And on judgement day, he will be in front of God to explain why he chose to throw away God's creation and 'create' his own.
Instead, I would help him by making sure he knew I love him no matter what, and I would help him by getting him some counseling, some help to figure out why he feels this way.
2006-08-23 18:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by littleangelfire81 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do no longer spank them. regardless of what every physique's ethical perspectives are on it, their mom would be pressing costs against you in case you do. i will make it easier to comprehend that for particular by using what you assert approximately her. You and your husband might desire to modern-day a united front here, regardless of the form you agree directly to deal with it. And if he won't supply help to, you ought to to take an prolonged, difficult look at your dating. this would possibly no longer circulate away, or be elementary to determine. the main ingredient is, in spite of you agree directly to do, carry on with it, together, and don't circulate into opposite. additionally, do no longer make a huge fuss approximately it. in the event that they have been instructed "no television in case you do/do no longer try this or that", whilst they destroy the rule of thumb, quietly unplug the television and do away with the distant from the room, and not making use of a word. we've long previous so a techniques as taking it out of the room altogether for something of the day with my daughter. She became an angel for weeks after that. discover their weak spot, and use it.
2016-09-29 22:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him the futility of crossing over ..in terms of gender body parts and all the good done by his gender..advantages and prestige involved in doing things manly.Disadvantages of being a poser in opposite gender can also be told to him gradually.
2006-08-23 17:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by manishag123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if you should be asking someone on here get some pro help
2006-08-23 18:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by jc_22_mj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise him to wait until he's an adult, and to be very, very sure. I wouldn't agree with the decision, but would love my child regardless.
2006-08-23 18:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just support him, no matter what. Don't treat him any different, or love him any less.
2006-08-23 18:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by ★Fetal☆ ★And ☆ ★Weeping☆ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for him
2006-08-23 18:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋