Why am I so hurt over this guys he did me dirty just bad and i was so busy with the baby and work I didn't see it the whole 2yrs we were together he cheated with girls in our apartment complex so why do I still have compassion for him knowing he doesn't care about me at all why does he keep on trying to come back and act like nothing happened when he sees I'm hurt badly and most importantly why does he cry with me but can't give me a straight answer about his cheating in the past
2006-08-23 17:45:14 · 12 answers · asked by pink_nikes_06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's cheated on you and wants you to take him back. He thinks you'll just forget about what he's done and everything will be OK. He won't give you a straight answer because he DID cheat on you, he just doesn't want to answer your question. He knows he did wrong, but doesn't want to admit to it.
He will continue to do this. And he'll keep hurting you. You need to get rid of him and find someone who won't break your heart or cheat on you honey!! Good luck!!!
2006-08-23 17:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know ur b/f to give u a straight answer but let me put it this way... it could be that he still loves u thats why he wants u back and would not give u the details of his cheating bec he feels it will hurt you more, or it can also be a case of "wanting the cake and eating it too" meaning he loves u but he is also not ready to give up his wandering ways... u see only u can decide in what category he falls, nevertheless hang on there, have faith and ask God's guidance... wish u all the best..
2006-08-24 00:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by sen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you blame yourself for not being there for him. on the otherhand he should have told you,he was lonely and needed more of your attention. you can't help it if you work and care for a baby. a real man would have told you how he felt before the affair and try to find a way to reconnect with you like paying a sitter on a day off and spent some much needed time with you.he won't say who ,because he doesn't want his boat rocked!!! i think you should look for a real man. i know it hurts to walk away,but you will never find someone worth it lost in a disfuntional relationship.
2006-08-24 00:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by CARLENE R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's crawling back to you because of the baby most likely...or he's been caught cheating on you by other girls too, and needs his fixing of females.
2006-08-24 00:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by roverriffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you continue to give him the power to hurt you. Continuing to want to know who and wanting to know his past, shows that you are insecure. Take the power back. Know your beautiful, smart and dont need someone who doesnt know that about you. Respect your self.
2006-08-24 00:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all he should never tell you who he slept with. Stop asking. Second of all, what do you expect? Just because you had his kid does not put a hold on him. If he loved you he would have married you and then had a kid. He just wanted spread his seed around and act like a man. He does not treat you with respect because you never asked for it.
2006-08-24 00:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
he does'nt want to tell you he is guilty of it, but I am sure you know he is. you want to know who with, so you can compare yourself to her, or see what she looks like, what he sees in her, it is normal and natural to feel the way you do.
2006-08-24 00:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by helper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl move on you are to good for him tell him to get. tell him iam not playing no more games hes rong
2006-08-24 00:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by cincy_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't give you an answer because he is hiding something. yes he probably is cheating with you. so leave him.
2006-08-24 00:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by christinaz22 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because he my be cheating. but you'll never no so it's best to break up with him.
2006-08-24 00:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by markese 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋