ok....long story...but here goes...most guys think I am good looking and very sexy...met a guy online....sorta fell for him....but...he keeps telling me how he likes me for my personality and keeps reminding me that my looks or sexuality is not important...tells me that he can't undrstand why other guys find me attractive and sexy...makes me feel that he does not find me that way....other thing is.....he is on disability and broke and was finding it hard to make ends meet until I came along as i have a good job....not really sure if he loves me (says he does) or if I just make his life easier....he is obsessed with big boobs and always remarks on how good looking other women are...makes me insecure....can't figure out why he is with me????? wanting to hear others opinion of this situation.
2006-08-23 17:37:44 · 15 answers · asked by north44girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't figure out why YOU are with him!?!?! Find a man that appreciates you and compliments you more. You have the facts in front of you my dear. Find a man that is well off on his own and doesn't need a women to accommodate his inadequacy.
2006-08-23 17:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by merivel7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get out, this guy is a user and if he thinks your not attractive then no reason to be with he should think of the mind soul and everything about you and to make a remark like that on other guys is a way to get you to think your not and stay w/ him,
2006-08-23 17:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn girll yea...umm yea NOOO! forget that loser..all he wants is money..and if he doesnt make u feel beautiful..why would u want him? i think i would love my guy telling me im beautiful or pretty and some situation sexy or hot..girls need insurence that their guy liked them and how they look and everything..i would say stop talking to him..and forget..go somewhere other than the internet to meet guys..go out of town, party a little bit..i mean u dont want to pick up a drunk guy, cuz who knows what they are like sober..so just go somewhere suttle..like a library coffe shop..mall..something like that..be a little bit open and talk, but not too much..u know what i mean?
2006-08-23 17:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by yummy_20032001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With you? Like on the computer with you?
Hon he's "with" you (and probably 10 others just like you) cause you are naive enough to think there is something in him you can't get from a real man.
Get some self respect and run like your hair is on fire.
2006-08-23 17:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's still with you because you're paying. Trust me...if he really gave a damn about you he wouldn't be saying he doesn't see why other guys are attracted to you, talking about how attractive he thinks other women are, etc. Lose the loser!
2006-08-23 17:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by vbplr_12 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THE WAY PEOPLE TREAT OTHERS IS A REFLECTION OF HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT THEMSELVES.
I FOUND SEVERAL RED FLAGS, OR WARNING SIGNS THAT WOULD WARN ME AND PROBABLY SCARE ME OFF.
1-HE CAN TELL YOU ANYTHING HE WANTS YOU TO KNOW ABOUT HIMSELF ONLINE. HE COULD 'REINVENT' HIMSELF AND YOU WOULD BE NONE THE WISER
2-HIS FINANCIAL TROUBLES ARE PROBABLY OF HIS OWN MAKING, AND THE DISABILITY EXCUSE IS CRAP. DON'T FALL FOR THAT ONE....REAL MEN WON'T SETTLE FOR BEING A MOOCHER.. REAL MEN TAKE PRIDE IN PROVIDING OR CONTRIBUTING. REAL MEN FIND SOMETHING THEY CAN DO...EVEN IF IT IS ANSWERING PHONES AND MAKING APPOINTMENTS. DISABILITY, MY A**!!!!!!
3-HE IS TRYING TO MAKE YOU FEEL INSECURE, TRYING TO PUSH YOUR BUTTONS TO SEE HOW IMPORTANT THE APPROVAL OF OTHERS IS TO YOU. THIS IS ONE OF THE OLDEST TRICKS IN THE BOOK.
4-HE TELLS YOU HE LOVES YOU. UNLESS YOU HAVE SPENT TIME WITH SOMEONE, IN PERSON, AND SEEN THEM IN VARIOUS SITUATIONS, HOW CAN YOU POSSIBLY KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN LOVE. IT SOUNDS LIKE HE IS TETING YOU TO SEE HOW DESPERATE YOU ARE.
5-IF HE SAYS HE LIKES YOUR PERSONALITY, AND SEXUALITY IS NOT IMPORATNT, YET CONTRADICTS HIMSELF WITH HIS OBJECTIFICATION OF WOMEN WITH BIG BOOB COMMENTS.....HE IS A LIAR.
THIS GUY IS PUSHING YOUR BUTTONS, WITH THE INTENTIONS OF HOW HE HAS TO BE, WHAT HE HAS TO SAYTO MANUIPLATE YOU AND TAKE YOU FOR A RIDE.
YOU WOULD BE A FOOL TO GO FOR IT. GUYS LIKE THIS USE THE INTERNET TO REINVENT THEMSELVES, TEST PEOPLE, LET SLIP AN ADMISION OF FALLIABILITY (HIS MONEY PROBLEMS) TO SEE HOW ACCEPTING YOU ARE. THEY THEN PUSH BUTTONS TO SEE IF YOU HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM AND IF YOU ARE AN APPROVAL JUNKIE. THEN THEY TRY TO SEE IF YOU WOULD DO THINGS FOR THEM IF THEY CLAIM TO LOVE YOU.. DON'T BE PLAYED BY THIS LOSER!!!!!!
YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR THAT, TOO SMART FOR THAT, AND DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT.
CUT HIM LOOSE!!! FAST!!!! (SINCE YOU ASKED)
2006-08-23 17:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk from what you wrote of him he also sounds like a loser. He may think that what he said is what you want to hear. He may be using you for money you should'nt try to meet people online at least thats my personal belief...
2006-08-23 17:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by phobosaffear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if his name is william email me black.tornheart@yahoo.com.au cos i know him n he is like that n on a disability pension as he is in a wheel chair. reply asap
n all u others just bcos he has a diability, he does have the right to live and love life like the rest. it aint his fault that he got delt a cra p hand
i cn find out 4 u
2006-08-23 17:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by Broken butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are his meal ticket. You make life easier for him. All he wants is what your paycheck can provide. I would leave him He was fine before you came along and he'll be fine when your gone. He'll find another to sucker.
2006-08-23 17:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋