i like this guy who's in my world history class. he's partially home schooled so i dont get to see him alot. he's a sophomore and im a freshman. he's the guy who's really nice and sensitive, into art and music, wears converse, doesn't make fun of anyone type of person and im the preppy, popular, abercrombie wearing type girl. i think i like him and im not sure what to do next. he only takes like two classes a day. i kinda want to ask him to a movie or something. but i know it would be really awkward cause we're so different. i dont know alot about him right now cause i just met him two days ago when school started. what do i do next? please give me some advice other than yes or no. thanks. he's actual pretty confident and answers questions and stuff in class. and im not afraid we'll have nothing to talk about, its just gonna be awkward if we go out. and im not really sure he would say yes if i asked him out. i dont even know if he already has a girlfriend.
2006-08-23 17:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont really know how to approach him.
2006-08-23 17:31:06 · update #1
Maybe you should try talking to him in and around class. That would give you an opportunity to see how well the two of you can carry a conversation. It would also give you both a chance to get to know each other before you ask him out.
2006-08-23 17:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well,.taking a step like that is always going to be awkward. You just need to take a deep breath and just ask him. Try getting to know him a little better in school and when he's more familiar with you. Just asked to go hang out at the movies. There's nothing to lose. And if he's the nice guy you say he is,..he might except the invite. good luck!
2006-08-24 00:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by merivel7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I Were You i will do something Very Smart
because i feel how you feeling
well Give him your Phone number and ask him to call whenever he feels like it
Remember to repeat whenever you feel like it
and just leave him
if he call he at least has 10% of accepting and that is enough for you to Go From there and Do Yor Thangz
Peace
2006-08-24 00:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Momomada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you obviously have to make a move if you want anything to happen....go up to him one day before or after class and ask him if he doesn't have plans if he would want to go to a movie or out to eat or something. if he responds with he already has a gf...then just drop it and move on. if he does want to go talk to him and get to know him better and tell him about yourself. this way you will be able to find out if you truly do like him. don't be afraid to get his number to ask him out.
2006-08-24 00:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by christinaz22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as you setting a new fashion trend. lol j/k. If you are popular, i find it hard to believe you would be shy. worst case scenario; he says no regardless of th reason. won't know unless you try good luck
2006-08-24 00:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT! YOU ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE! =) BUT I perferr you get to know him first, become friends and find who he is. good luck
and then later ask him out if you are still interested, i mean whats the harm, if he saids no because he isnt into you, then there are tons of other guys that woulf love to be with you, Be yourself and if he doesnt like you for you , he isnt worth your time.
And if he is interested: WONDERFUL!
Have fun
2006-08-24 00:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Wonderful 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u met him two days ago, i would give it some time before u asked him out.
Wait three weeks, and see if he shows intrest in you. good luck!!!
2006-08-24 00:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and hangout with him then ask him if he wants to go out with u
2006-08-24 00:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by W0Ah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...talk to him...its funny but i always tell a girl not to do this but in this case i think it OK
2006-08-24 00:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
preppy..popular..hmm...You try being his friend and get to know him before u ask him out or anything.
2006-08-24 00:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by B♥bert♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋