should you find long lost children in your old age? given away?

Question

many of my ex-girlfriends from all my life are nearby.
i see kids around that resemble them. by kids i mean, under
40. some of us start in young. teen marriages are hard.
in school they show films to discourage it. paternity is
difficult to establish. bribes can be paid, even in dna.
i didn't grow up in a little fishing village in nova scotia, but los
angeles, ca, sin capital of the world, so bear with us on that.
it was calipornia, even in 1950 when i was born there.
fidelity, bravery and integrity are very difficult in such a climate.
abortion wasn't legal till 1973. it was there, just underground
though. running into girlfriends i haven't seen in 20 yrs. is
far out. nostalgia. i ran into one of my long lost daughters
at alberstson's. i wrote my high school wife and she came
out and befriended her. any thoughts on how to proceed.
it kinda knocked the silk stockings right off the daughter.
blew her circuits. she was manager during grocery strike.

Answer 1

why don`t you ask her if she would like to find her real parents, and if she says yes, then tell her your her parent, if she says no then thank her for letting you know how to handle the situation.