my ex and i had a really fgood realtionship and we loved each other alot well so i thought wen i dint see him in class one day i called to make sure he was alright ya know and he wasnt home then the next day at school my friend tells me that he asked my other friend out and that same day wen she told me he didnt talk to me wat so eva and wen itried to talk to him he would walk away frm me so then lata on that day my other friend tell me that he told her to tell me he was breaking up wit me and i was lik wat the hell ya know and i still ove him alot and i wanna tell him but dont know if i should or ask him if he still has feelings for wat should i do ppl help me please im confused???
2006-08-23 17:19:33 · 9 answers · asked by cupid girl 9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can really feel the situation you are in as I was in the similar situation 5-6 ago when I was a college student. What I feel is that every relationship needs some time. Try to become a close friend and trust me whatever feelings you both have for each other, will definitely come out. You cannot hide those expressions neither he can if you both become close friends. But remember dont forget to mentain a distance in between. Always remember, to read a book you need certain distance, if its too close you'll not be able to read it.
2006-08-23 17:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Upal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, do not walk, away from this whole mess. No one that loves you would ask a friend out, and longing for him makes ya look pathetic. Best bet? Find Mr Right Now and walk right through the door.
2006-08-23 17:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by JabberJaws 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
This is tough - your 'not seeing' him response was a bit clingy. Many people can cringe at the thought of someone being clingy and needy - it's not exciting.
I'd try and act like you don't care - don't crack. It will help you move on if he is a dog or will have him curious if he just needs space.
2006-08-23 17:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously made it clear that he has moved on. Learn how to have some self respect and love yourself first. Don't ask him anything, he already made it clear that he moved on, you should too. There are plenty of other guys that would respect you and care for you so pick yourself up and start looking for the right guy.
2006-08-23 17:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lil_Red_Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl, the best thing to do is let him go. i know it's hard but he has shown you alot of signs that he doesn't feel the same way about you anymore. love hurts, but you got to let him see what time of person you really were to him. don't ask him about his feelings because then maybe him will dig deeper into your heart. what i mean, is then we really try to do things to make you jealousy and want him back.
2006-08-23 17:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw a cozy party and invite him along with common friends.
2006-08-23 17:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he left you for your other friend might as well let go and move on...but you could go ahead and tell him that you still do...you got nothin to lose right?
2006-08-23 17:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex and he seeing someone else. You don't want to hear it, but move on.
2006-08-23 17:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. look for another...
2006-08-23 17:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by nickheey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋