2006-08-23 17:03:54 · 12 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Be yourself" is a delusion..
If you want male attention, be hot..
If you want a relationship, take your time, know what you want, and be selective..
:-)
2006-08-23 17:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Andreba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get us, rather than have us get you. Playing hard to get is quite frankly a waste of time - why should I bother trying to make you mine for two months if I could have you for those two months as well?
The secret is being modern and contemporary - we live in an age where women can approach men as well. This doesn't mean you should act loose or like a prostitute; it just means you should be more straightforward about your interests. The best way to see that someone is confident is to notice that they know what they want, and often get themselves what they want.
So don't play hard to get, or wait for us to come to you. Most of us are cowardly when it comes to women, so try approaching us, and you can see for yourself how many men you can get that way.
2006-08-24 00:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in the body language and eyes and the way you carry yourself. Like when a guy looks at you and u catch his eye,,,dont look down or away,,,,,show him ur strong and kinda playful and that kinda turns a guy on as a challenge,,,Or use ur eyes like if he looks at u raise ur eye brows a little bit,,, guys take this as a dare and it turns them on....Or with ur body just kinda sit up straight dont slouch or show anything else other than respect for yourself,,when u walk walk tall and with your head up,,,,if you think u r the shitt so will he.. and when you talk try to hold eye contact and like use a sexy voice when you do....also dont be a prude!!!!!!!!
2006-08-24 00:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by lollipop lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence.
2006-08-24 00:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's their secret? Just be yourself. That's what most guys like about girls. They don't pretend and they are straightforward. (Mostly they are intelligent and pretty.)
2006-08-24 00:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CONFIDENT! I have TOO many guys. It's actually quite a mess. But believe in yourself! Tell them about your dreams, your ambitions. Show them that you aren't shallow, that you have DEPTH. be YOURSELF and show him that you love yourself. How can he expect you to love him and its obvious that you don't love yourself? It's all about love. And occassionally a bit of makeup and a push up bra, just for the initial attraction!
2006-08-24 00:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get all of the wrong guys, sorry I am no help at all! I am swearing of men for a bit.
2006-08-24 00:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get to know them, and what they want. You don't expect them to read your mind, buy you everything, or always be right next to you.
2006-08-24 00:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoo i donno i am posting to see what the answers are to this one...just being honest.
shoo I seen overweight guls with fine azz men
I think to myself...maybe its the cushion in the pushing or her culinary arts???
2006-08-24 00:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, motivation, self-worth and class.
2006-08-24 00:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by reniebambie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋