I'm 17 and still a virgin. How does it feel and what are you guys thinking?
2006-08-23 16:49:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hurts, then feels numb
2006-08-23 16:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a best friend thats a virgin and a girl and I know a few girls that are not virgins and I have to say for the most part from what I’ve learned its different for every girl. One its defiantly going to depend on the guy. If you’re attracted to him and if he’s a good person cause believe me sex can be just as emotional as it is physical. From what I’ve learned is if you don’t have much of an emotional tie with the guy sex might not be as good as it could have been had you had that bond. Also experience; if the guy is being ‘all over the place’ and not really paying attention to areas that turn you on the sex could quite possibly be a real let down. As a dude I defiantly pay attention and listen to what turns girls on and what really gets them worked up. Most dudes that brag to be so great and have ‘so much experience’ usually are just shooting you a load of well you can fill in the blank. But if a dude is paying attention to what gets you hot and worked up which is first and foremost the most important part cause if you’re not all that wet ‘down there’ the first time would really hurt like hell. I’m not a girl and I’m pretty sure it hurts regardless but from female friends I’ve learned that when their boyfriend didn’t exactly know what he was doing their first time was Horrible. And I’ve known a couple of others to say their first time was pretty great. So it can be either good or bad depending on the factors involved.
2006-08-23 16:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Spike193 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... It depends on if your male or female as to how it feels... But for you... It depens on if the hymen has been broken yet and how good the partner is. If the person is good then the first time with be a little bit painfull, but will be pleasureable. If the person is bad at it, it will hurt a lot and regardless there will most likely be bleeding (but shouldn't be a lot, which I have heard of someone who was with a guy that was really bad cause a pool of blood, which shouldn't happen)...
I'd say that more than less likely the first time will be somewhat dissapointing... Don't think it will be mindblowing... Wait untill the third or fourth time once you figure out how your body works and how to get an orgasm (or he figures it out for ya).
2006-08-23 16:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Rob D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well girl first of all stay a virgin until you get married it is the best thing to share with the person you plan to be with for the rest of your life and then when u have it for your first time then it will be so special. well i am 19 and i have been married for 3 years in november. but it will hurt your first time but will love it after that. just good luck and stay a virgin until that special one comes along called your husband. watch out because some guys are perverts and will just try to get with u and that is why u should wait for the special one because you might not never no what they are thinking
2006-08-23 16:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It hurt a little, but the second time was better and by the third time it was great! A guy's first time is just quick. I mean every virgin guy I've been with the whole thing was like 2 seconds. Virgin guys suck!
2006-08-23 16:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It will fell a bit pain full, so always remember to relax your body the best you can. If you are on top then you can controll how fast and how hard you want to go. You have to make sure you are fully ready. Make sure you are comfortable with the situation, and relax. Our bodies were made to enjoy it. Also, if you have plans make sure you are fully ready and protected from S.T.D
2006-08-23 16:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should watch the show "Talk Sex with Sue Johanson" on Sunday nights on Oxygen. She spells everything out and it's a call in show so you could call and ask questions.
2006-08-23 16:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by ruairi_irish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thinking?
2006-08-23 16:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by tangodancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you are still small to have a sex.and by the way pleas concentrate on your study.and if anything unwanted happen then you will spoil your life and by the way your whole life is there for you for all this stuff.
2006-08-23 16:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by alltimeforyou2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurt for me some but the guy was gentle and at the end it was pleasing it helps if they care and you bleed a little too
2006-08-23 16:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by doeraeluv 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It hurts, you may even bleed, and you'll wonder what all the fuss is about. However...over time, as you discover your own 'talents' in that area, sex will become better. Remember too...males are at their sexual prime in their late teens, early twenties...females are in their late twenties, early thirties.
2006-08-23 16:52:10 · answer #11 · answered by SoCalBeachGal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋