if a man gave me hope for being a couple and after 2-3 months says i'm in love with another girl and he says it like it doesn't mean anything like it doesn't hurt me to hear that but he whants to be friends............
2006-08-23 16:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How much do you love this man? How much do you want this man. How much do you need this man.
How much does he love you? How much does he want you. How much does he need you.
from what you shared with us, it seems to me that you indeed LOVE, WANT, and NEED, this man, since you willingly devoted in hope and waited 2-3 months hoping to share your life with this man in a more intimate personal relationship such it is when 2 individuals agree to become a couple.
as for him we all can agree that he in reality DOES NOT LOVE YOU, WANT YOU nor NEED YOU. and he has made that clear by the fact that he has told you he now loves some one else.
I ask you now this, Do you want to be friends with some one who has no respect for you as a human being, and has toyed with your emotions, deceived you with his lies, and on top of that, he wants to humiliate you even further by "just being friends"
THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION, LIES WITHIN YOUR HEART. FOLLOW IT.
2006-08-23 17:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he isn't honest with you. Right now, he is cheating on you. Don't be with this guy anymore. Why would your boyfriend say "I'm in love with another girl" and then tell you it doesn't mean anything and just wants to be friends with her? That is a total complete lie. He's isn't faithful to you, loyal, or even respect how you feel. Let him go, he isn't the guy you should have as a boyfriend. Forget him.
2006-08-23 16:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It time to cut hin off.........he just wants to be your friend so that he can still have sex with you and have a loving relationship with her....Girl take it as a loss and be glad that it only occupied 2-3 mths of you life...time to hit the club
2006-08-23 16:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by sweetchic117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should have the friend thing alot of people say want to be friends but really dont meen it, get away and dont give time of day find someone right
2006-08-23 16:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to hit the road jack.You aint got time for that.
2006-08-23 16:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and let the 3rd party know of his antics...
at least you get the satisfaction that if he can play with your feelings
then let her know, that he can do it again with her !
2006-08-23 16:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by megadisc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go girlfriend. there r other fish in the sea.
2006-08-23 16:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by "big dogs wife" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.
2006-08-23 16:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold your head up high and say screw you buddy and move on
2006-08-23 16:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by want_me_luv_me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-08-23 16:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋