I have been with my boyfriend for four and a half years, love him very much and want to marry him. However, I don't really enjoy sex with him. Not because of what he does or doesn't do, I just don't like the act in general. It sucks to be me. I do it cause I know that is a healthy part of the relationship, but I am scared because I wonder if I found the right person, would I love sex, or can I just be a person that will never really love it and maybe (hopefully) reach my peak in my 30s (I'm 25). I've been with other people and I've never really loved it ever. It's been fun with some of them and good, but I still don't think it's something I'd choose to do. I'm scared cause I don't want my whole life to be spent with someone I don't have sexual chemistry with, but to break up over that seems really crazy especially since I feel so much love for him and him for me. Any advice? Thanks
2006-08-23
16:41:02
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and I KNOW people will tell me to incorporate toys or try role playing and whatnot, but we have done all that and it's fine I'm not like I HATE THIS... but it's just not my cup of tea, if that makes sense
2006-08-23
16:45:13 ·
update #1