I have just splitted up with somebody to whom I was quite close and whom I trusted. I found he was a disappointment and I am resentful. I sometimes miss him and miss the things we had, but then I go angry with myself because I feel I was a fool to believe in that relationship. I feel he cheated to me emotionally. I want to let go of all those feelings.
2006-08-23 16:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by iamalion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sailing in the same boat so you are not alone. Just keep telling yourself that you are a trusting good person who gave too much to a person who used you. Forget the resentment and anger. Rather, pity him, it is him who lost the best thing he ever had. Get on with your life and this experience will only make you stronger. Life is a lesson. Next time, you will not be taken in by a pathetic loser. Don't change who you are, just let it go.
2006-08-23 16:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lil_Red_Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly what you are doing now, LET IT OUT!!!! It is not wrong for you to miss him and the things that you did. You obviously had strong feelings for him. He broke that trust you had. It would be really hard to go back to him because you would always have that "what is he doing? is he using me?" feeling and that would only hurt the relationship. You are always going to have the resentment, it will lessen in time. Do not be angry with yourself for missing him, that is normal. But, please, try to get all of your frustrations out or you will only be hurting yourself.
2006-08-23 23:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by Gary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on every single last one of his faults and shortcomings, and make fun of him. Find a celebrity or someone who doesn't look like him and start paying attention to them if you can't find a significant other right away.
I'm just breaking off of a relationship, so far those things are helping, I know exactly how you feel, only switch the genders.
2006-08-23 23:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you pray, do that. Ask for him to have all things good. It sounds far fetched I know, but it's for you, not him. Your resentment will go away. If you are not a praying person, stay busy with productive activities and spend a lot of time with friends.
2006-08-23 23:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will let go when you find someone else. In the meantime if you want to get even, there is a website where you can post his name and write terrible things about him for the world to see. If you need revenge, that should do it.
2006-08-23 23:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone -- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Trying to forget someone you loved is like trying to remember someone you never knew
you never really stop loving someone. you just learn to try to live without them, as sad as it seems.
Life goes on, and so should you, as bad and as hard as it seems.
God Bless
2006-08-23 23:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting into a new relationship or at least talking to others begins to "help" at least.
2006-08-23 23:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Miss T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get the answer let me know! So far i have been putting revenge on girls similar to the one from my experience. Them 'hoes deserve it. Good luck!
2006-08-23 23:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by kaiserchief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will heal the hurt. Sorry to say I know how you are feeling.
2006-08-23 23:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by Pete T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping. Buy clothes. Do something for yourself.
2006-08-24 00:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋