My gf is just starting sophmore yr in highschool and i am out of highschool, we are also 3000 miles apart.?

Question

My gf is a sophmore and i am out of school and plus we 3000 miles away. should i stay or go?
me and her have been goin out for almost 3 yrs now and she is a sophmore in highschool and i am out of school, she lives in utah and i live in louisiana. most of the relationship has bee longdistance but we decided to keep it together until she is old enough to move out. i was wondering if i should stay with her so she cant be with anyone if someone asks her out,etc. or should i leave so i wouldnt have to worry about taken that away from her? but i couldnt look at her the same if i knew that she was with someone else. I was her 1st and hopefully her only since she has been gone. but i dont know what to do. HELP!

Answer 1

Contrary to what the cynics say, distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they dont see it nearly enough..
Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle rather a great reminder of just how strong true love can be
though miles may lay between you two, you`re never far apart, for love doesnt count the miles, its measured by the heart

Answer 2

It is very hard for anyone to keep relationship going when there is that many miles between them. Take one day at a time!!

Answer 3

Trust me... I did the long distance thing. It's not worth it. It's only worth it if you plan to marry that person.
You both are far too young to be this serious. Date... and let her date too. Stay in touch if you want, but you both should be free to date others. Have fun! You're both practically babies in the large scheme of things... let her go her way and you go yours.

Answer 4

Take time apart and see others, and if you 2 get back together you know its ment to be.

Answer 5

Agree to date other people and see what happens.