well for about a month and a half i have been having sex with a dude who has a girlfriend. i really really like him but right now he has to be with her because he just got out of jail and he needs her for a place to stay. He hates it there he has just turned 24 and she is 30 with3 kids that are not his. They have only been dating for a couple months. Should i feel guilty about what i'm doing even if he is unhappy?
2006-08-23 16:09:32 · 26 answers · asked by worried 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice is get rid of him,if he does thi sto you,do you not think he`ll do it to someone else......goodluck
2006-08-23 16:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the fact that he just got out of jail, should worries you. How would you feel if this was happening to you, instead of his girlfriend?
Most of the time these things have a way of getting back at you.
Keep me posted! You would be a good candidate for the Jerry Springer show. Have him go along with you too.
You are the kind of girl giving other girls a bad name.
2006-08-23 23:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dogla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K., step back and look at this picture.
You see a girl sleeping with some guy who just got out of jail and is living with a girlfriend (and has been) - never mind the 3 kids that are not his, that is not relevant to the issue (we are not talking about her).
Thinik about it!!! Is that what you REALLy want in life - a relationship with someone like that? Good grief, I would hope not.
2006-08-23 23:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should dump him and forget him...move on...ur better than that. 1. He just got out of jail. 2. He's using the other lady for a place to stay. 3. He is chetaing on both of u. He's 24. he should be able to take care of himself without needing to use somebody...ur probably next
2006-08-23 23:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by david w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah...
i didnt even read all of this.
i saw dating a guy who has a girlfriend, which told me your dad left you and you want to go out with unavailable men that you know wont commit and thus not braek your heart when they leave.
then i saw he just got out of prison. RUN and i HOPE you are on birth control so more messed up kids arent born.
you feeling guilty isnt an issue, you need to find someone who isnt going to cause you do go insane. try going out with a man that doesnt have a criminal reccord.
is that the type of person you look for in the end to marry and father your children????
2006-08-23 23:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you selling yourself short to say the least. This guy has major problems. You are worth far greater than letting yourself be devalued like this. You don't love each other and are not commited..
Ouch.! He's using you.... or both of you are using each other, big time.
I hope both of you stop seeing/contacting each other asap.
Turn the corner and go the right direction.
2006-08-23 23:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I wouldn't feel guilty because I knew what I was doing when I got in to this kind of relationship. Second, just a piece of advise you shouldn't believe everything that comes out his mouth because he could be telling you these things just to have his cake and eat it too.
2006-08-23 23:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by sexysweetnikkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh why are you even askign this question....its called (common sense)....damn right you should feel guilty.....(hey im not trying to be a B****) but you shouldnt be with a guy that is already in a relationship.....even if he is unhappy...if he is unhappy, he should of broken it off....who cares if he just got out of jail...thats not a good enough excuse for me.....and if hes cheating on her ,whos to say he wont cheat on you.....(think about it)well its your decision in the end....we cant tell you to feel good about what your doing or to feel bad...its your choice...and your ganna have to live with it...good luck....if you wanna talk email me...babyxdollx666@yahoo.com
2006-08-23 23:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by byrdie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to his lies shorty he likes it there are he wouldnt be there he is just telling you what he thinks you want to hear be smart ans realize this dude be telling his girlfriend the same kind of lies and its no telling how many more girls he had writting him and sending money while he was in jail be careful this could be trouble
2006-08-23 23:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh... DUH!! How would you feel in the same position as his girlfriend huh? He's playing you honey. If I were you, I'd tell him that I don't feel comfortable about it and bail. Think about it, he comes in and lives with you, after a while he gets tired of you and starts seeing another woman. Doesn't sound like the one you want to spend your life with.
2006-08-23 23:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lolaaaa! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be worried about yourself. This guy could do the same thing to you. He may be telling you all of this just to have his way with you. Put your foot down don't let him use you.
2006-08-23 23:13:08 · answer #11 · answered by Jovan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋