What should i do!?

Question

okay my sister has been hanging out with the wrong crowd she is a year and 6 months older than me but she hasnt been making the right decisions! she used to be real commited to christ and go to church every sunday! now she never goes! im worried what do i do!?

Answer 1

Are you her sister or her mother? Just be her friend and be there for her when she does make mistakes and don't rub it in her face when it does happen to her. Because one day if it happens to you, I would assume you would want her to be there for you. I don't know how old you are but the process of adulthood is very much existant. Just be there for her. Because you can be next. PEACE!

Answer 2

The best advise I can give you is to pray for her. You should also voice your concern to her in a loving way. Let her know you care. But, ultimately, she is going to probably have to learn these lessons for herself and telling on her, etc. would only make matters worse. Stick close, and maybe try to get her interested in something with you (ie scrapbooking, mini golf, cooking class, working out) something that would open up the lines of communication between you and occupy some of her time. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 3

I don't see her listening to you because of the simple fact that you are her "little" sister. I think you're going to have to reach out to someone else. Someone who she WILL listen to, or at least someone who will make her think about it. Maybe another one of her good friends from before the time that this crowd came along?? But ultimately, I don't think she will change if she feels comfortable with her ways. That's just human nature. No one becomes someone that they prefer not to be, if they are not happy that way.

Answer 4

let her make her mistakes mistakes that she cant blame you or your family for i know its hard when someone is messing up but you gotta give her space its up to your parents to look after her not you and if she doesn't go to church anymore is her decision if you tell her what she should be doing and try to convert her into the old her she will end up resenting you for that so as much as it hurts let your parents handle it try not to get involved

Answer 5

well ok this is a tuff situation, cause if u tell her how u fell she might say well im older and u dont need to worry. so its a sticky situation. i think u might want to tell ur parents that ur worried bout her or u can just comfront her. i would try it and if dont work email me

Answer 6

Well, as long as she isint doing drugs or sleeping around i don't see anything wrong with it, don't go nagging her or lecturing her becuause you might push her away even more just be there for her, and maby she will let you know whats going on in her life.

Answer 7

dependin on what she is doin is what to do, but need to talk to her and if not willin to then seek help w/ family and friends hope she doesnt mess up ;ife because of these people if ya think she is smart enough to know to get away if its gonna be out of hand then let her she mite surprise ya,

Answer 8

Doesnt mean she's on the wrong path because she doesnt go to church

Answer 9

i'm no atheist, and i'm no saying don't go to church. i'm not saying give up your religion. maybe your sis just discovered that religion isn't her priority. besides family is family, she gets banged up by the road she is taken, you should be there to stand her up.

Answer 10

Don't you tell your parents about your sister? Tell'em.