How can you make a longterm relationship last just from the girls?

Question

the only reason i asked for only girls because i didn't expect the boys to take me seriously.

Answer 1

by loving more and more everyday....

Answer 2

Be honest. Hard to do the way most of us are brought up, but the best thing you can do. If something pisses you off, don't hold it in then blow up about something stupid later. Calmly confront the problem and sort it out. If you want something, let it be known. Tell the truth and expect the same in return.

If you can't work it out while being completely truthful, then confront the fact that it's a "right now" instead of "right" situation and enjoy it while it lasts.

Answer 3

Be generous. Be generous with your time and with your love. Be kind to each other, treat each other like you would a best friend, don't take each other for granted. Be honest with your feelings, if you're mad or hurt about something tell your mate, there is not room for resentment in a good healthy marriage. Don't name call - ever...Say I love you, often. Never ever threaten divorce, or even say the word no matter how mad you may be, threats cause doubt. Take care of yourself, so you can share a lifetime of love together, and most of all...Remember that we treat people how to treat us, if you treat your spouse well by doing all these things, expect them to treat you this way in return, and don't settle for less.

Answer 4

Communication. You must be able to talk to each other and learn when to take breaks and rethink things through after you have thier side.

Trust. You must go in a relationship with full trust. After a while that can build stronger or break depending on what happens.

Love. You must love someone in order to even be in a relationship! How can you be with someone if you dont love them? Thats just leading them on and thats dishonest with yourself and them. This is also attraction. You must be attracted to them in order to want a relationship with them.

Respect. For each other and yourself.

Responsibility. You must be responsible for yourself, your bills and to them. Yes, to them. You are responsible for their feelings even if it isnt on purpose because everything you do reflects back on them, so no cheating allowed!

Answer 5

Be open and honest.
Communicate about everything.
Don't be afraid to explore or express your fem side.
Do not cheat.
Take sand to the beach every once in a while ( your girl )
when hanging with the fellas.
Compliment her even if it's "your boobs look great in the shirt".

Answer 6

You really can't "make" it last unless both parties are willing to work at it together. Been there, done that.
I was giving it all and he decided "we" needed to move on, after 20 months together. He's now moved on (rather quickly,he did) and i'm STILL looking. It's been almost 10 months.

Answer 7

being honest, sensitive and know how to communicate well. trust is the basis of a good relationship as well. read tip on dating and relationships that will help you more on this site

Answer 8

show them so much love and hold eachother close. Don't be too neady and they should be the first thing you think about in the morning.

Answer 9

giver her your all, dont cheat, dont lie, act like you care at least(if you dont), dont be an a**, be nice, do some of the things she wants, be outgoing, dont be a punk etc.. and the list can go on.

Answer 10

sex
fun
share time
share things
give em space

Answer 11

call ... a lot...and hope 4 the best

good luck!