my bf's friend told me yesterday that my bf is cheating on me. so i broke up with my bf and after talking to him today he denied cheating.. obviously i mean he probably wouldnt admit it if he did. i still have the question of "what if he is telling the truth and didnt do it" going through my head and i dont know what to do or who to believe. what should i do?
2006-08-23 15:31:59 · 9 answers · asked by ::Hannah:: 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would never make a decision like breaking up with someone because of something someone else said. However, that's not to say that what they said wasn't true either. Do you have any reason to beleive he is/was cheating on you? That's the first question you need to ask yourself. Then, ask yourself how reliable of a source is the information that he is cheating coming from. Then, sit down and have a heart to heart with your bf. Depending on the type of person he is, he may or may not admit to any cheating. If you know him well enough, you will get a feel for whether he is lying or not. After answering these questions for yourself and talking to your bf, you should have a better idea of what the truth may be and where to go from there. If you just can't decide when all is done, then walk away because it will never work without trust. Best of luck.
2006-08-23 15:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing in a relationship is trust. You have to try to build trust between you and your BF if not it will be really hard to get through all the problem you will have to face in life.
More; you cannot just listen on someone else to take a decision. The relationship is something between you and your man you have to talk eveything together before making a decision cause you don't know if they are really telling you the truth (the other person). Someone could tell you that your man is cheating on you just to have him for them self.
Be carefull in that decision and talk about it to your man. Good luck and hope that your man is faithfull to you.
2006-08-23 15:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by guicout 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him some more about it. Find out from his friend who is was cheating with and ask the girl if it's true.
2006-08-23 15:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. What's done is done. Even if he didn't cheated, and you took him back, things wouldn't be the same considering the fact that you accused him for no reason. So..just leave it. Move on ;)
2006-08-23 15:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by jeanne1120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, as hard as it is, you will need to get over him, and let this one go. even if cheating is put on the table, you need to step away because something isnt right. if you two were really close it would have never been brought up.
2006-08-23 15:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make him promise that he wasn't cheating, and then get back together with him.
But if you actually SEE him cheating, then you can break up with him for real.
2006-08-23 15:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if all it takes is someone to tell you hes cheating and you believe someone else then how deep is your bond.
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2006-08-25 02:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by internetoptimiser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋