i think i found the guy for me. but in 3 weeks he is moving accross the country for college, and i am staying here for school. we have only been unofficially together for about 2 weeks. but i have been spending time with him all summer. i dont know what to do. just thinking about him leaving, i am already missing him and not knowing how i am going to handle it. i know he will want to hook up and not be tied down when he starts over, but he always tells me he likes me so much and that he will miss me and so on. WHAT DO I DOOOO??
2006-08-23 15:30:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him go, maybe when you're done w/school or when he's done w/school, one of you could move out to where the other one is.
i think that I would try and put it on hold and reconnect whenever you can. To me it would be easier to let him go now since you haven't been together for too long.
in the meantime, talk to him on the phone when he's gone, stay in touch. maybe even play the field, see if there's any other potential dates for you, because he will probably be doing the same thing. but like i said, stay in touch w/him!
2006-08-23 15:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound really serious. Just have fun with him while you can. It isn't worth trying to have a long distance relationship. Just keep in the back of your mind that he is leaving.
2006-08-23 15:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he specifically told you he wants to hook up and be available when he starts his new life then that's your answer. dont waste your time worrying about what could've been. and be happy about what was. you had fun. hes leaving. move on. =)
2006-08-23 15:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by suppp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it obvious? If you can handled being in a long distant relationship, and if you trust him, then let it be. Otherwise, find somebody else.
2006-08-23 16:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by jeanne1120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋