My ex is like so annoying he cheated twice and then he's begging for me back!! and then Last nite I asked him why he did it and he said cause he wanted to get ridd of me but why is he begging me to give him another chance if he wanted to get rdd of me I mean I left him and he doesn't need to get ridd of me now so why's he begging for me back?? what do I do I need BIG TIME help on this one!! but his older brother also steps in and fights with me and he said **** you to me earlier!!! Im so sad and Im mad what do I do please help!!
2006-08-23 15:22:43 · 22 answers · asked by Shaila F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's see I'm not too good on this kind of stuff but please don't go back out with him it is NOT worth it no matter what he or anyone else says please don't go out with him!!
2006-08-23 15:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by smiley4god1990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the only reason he wants you back is because nobody else is willing to put up with his childish crap. You are smarter than this, think about it. He's already cheated twice, which shows he honestly cares less about your feelings, and he's letting his brother talk to you in such a fowl manner, this means he has no respect for you. If he did, he would have defended your honor like a real man would. Continue to be mad, you have every right, the guy isn't worth the hassle of sadness. He's just SAD all on his own. It's time to find someone who does care.
2006-08-23 15:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, u should defineltl lose his azz! My ex cheated on me to many times, then she found out the grass wasnt greener on the other side! Just like him, so move on! He will always cheat on you cause he know you'll ALWAYS take him back.
2006-08-23 15:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by beerdrinker3423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is playing games. he is an immature lier and cheater. you need to cease all contact with him and his family immediately. tell him you want nothing to do with him then if he calls don't pick up he will eventually get the message and leave you alone. move on not all guys are like him. good luck.
2006-08-23 15:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and tell that brother to f off!! ooh, I would be mad too. Did he say anything to his brother when he said that to you? If he didnt, then you say bye bye. Sounds like he couldnt get the one he wanted so he went back to you cause he thinks you are a pushover. Good luck.
2006-08-23 15:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jinx 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is to tell him that you do not want anything to do with him. Don't talk to him at all. He made a decision not to be with you when he cheated on you. It will be easier if you have no communication at all with him.
2006-08-23 15:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he even defend you when his brother was rude and disrespectful to you? If he will stand by and allow a man to talk to ANY woman like that, much less one he wants to date, he is a loser and unworthy of you anyway.
Lose him fast!
2006-08-23 15:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him, once a cheater always a cheater, nobody deserves that. His ego was probably hurt when you left him, he probably wanted to be the one to break it off, so then it would have been on his terms. Move on to greener pastures.
2006-08-23 15:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Nails 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to just move on. If he still bothers you, tell him that what he did was wrong and that he really hurt you and that you can't go through that again. Make him know that you're serious. Tell him to move on.
2006-08-23 15:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off with this little cheating *** lier....good thing u dumbed his ***!! lol...i was in a relatationship like this before. i was in love.now let me tell you what!! lol but yeah i found out her cheated on me && i went off on a mother ******!! lol but i dont anyone should be with a cheater. but yeah i dont understand why he wants u back if why he cheated was to get rid off you.what a dumb *** answer. ya know what i mean? but yeah. he probably wants u back cuz your probably better lookin that tha chick he cheated on u with!! he is just jealous. i mean && for his bro to say that **** to u..i'd cuzz at him right back! i mean damn girl!! lol
2006-08-23 15:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! They never change! My ex cheated on me as well and I didn't take him back. And then while he was dating someone else, he tried to hook up with me which proves that he never changed to begin with!
2006-08-23 15:27:25 · answer #11 · answered by AngelGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋