OK so i went to college early for cheerleading and i meet this amazing guy everything i have ever dreamed of and more we hung out every day.
yesterday was the acculy orentation when all the freshamn class moved in and last night he asked me to be is girlffriend and how hehas never went into something so fast that he was so sure about.
I adore him but i am also in my second day of college. There R so many boys here and i just don't waqnt to make th mastake of getting involved and maybe missing out on the college experince
what do u think
keep in mind he is everything i have ever dreamed of
BEST Catch Ever
2006-08-23 15:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should think it over and i think you should stay with him. You should atleast see how it goes with him and give him a chance, its only fair, atleast give him a chance. I have been through a similar experience and i was the guy that dated the girl when she went to college and it only seems fair if u give him a chance.
2006-08-23 15:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that you never really know someone unless you have been with them for some time. He may seem like the best catch ever but now is not the time to tie yourself to him.
You have a long time to worry about a serious relationship.
The fact you have questions tells me you should not go any further with this guy.
Tell him how you feel. You are just starting collage and need some time to get to know him. If you think you want to look around, other men, then make sure right now that you tell him.
Once he feels like you are serious with each other you will really hurt him if you date someone else.
Ask him to give you time. You may end up together at some point in the future but right now you have a limited view of things. Don't do that. You may regret it later.
2006-08-23 15:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 18, 19? don't bother with him or anyone else. you could meet the boy of your dreams there but i wouldn't go ahead and say it's this guy that you have only met a short time ago. Take your time to get to know people. there could be someone even better around the corner. Don't rush into anything
2006-08-23 15:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by bchylik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have a different "college experience" ideal than i do.. to me college is getting a good education and getting the best grades possible. its not about partying or meeting guys... if you're not ready for a relationship then just dont get into one. he's better off if you dont drag him around then dump him when you find something better.
2006-08-23 15:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by NAQ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would continue to date him but try not to get too serious yet, like just date a little but dont spend all your time together and get too attached yet. However, dont be so far away from him that you push him away. Just tell him, you dont want to get too seious yet. That you really like him but you just want to see what happens! Good Luck!
2006-08-23 15:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stay single and play the field, you are right college is the best time of your life dont limit yourself....
2006-08-23 16:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by got_shots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope "missing out on the college experince" doesnt mean sleeping with different guys. but if you dont get involved with this guy, you might miss out on something great and some other girl might get him
2006-08-23 15:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good answers but more important keep your head in those books.
2006-08-23 15:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay friends and see what happens!
Have fun .. why get hung up so soon ...
2006-08-23 15:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time and enjoy life, youll be hitched soon enough
2006-08-23 15:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋