two girls, one of them hates me cuz i like her ex boyfriend and she is a bitcharooneydooney and she has spread roumors about me that are halfway right and no one likes her not even her ex (he changed his first hour to get away from her) lol the other girl is balemic and i don't like her but i don't wanna give up on her cuz she'll get even more depressed and prob go emo but how do i deal with these girls??
2006-08-23 14:40:58 · 7 answers · asked by My dad ate my homework 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
well for your balemic friend talk to a councler about her or get her to go to the school councler for help/ depression help. She needs mental help which isnt your problem and she needs professional help. Now for the other girl being jealous....just ignore her, no matter what rumors she spreads...the truth rings louder then any lie could ever. Tell people honesty and they will beilive you.
2006-08-23 14:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you deal with these girls? You don't. That's it, pure and simple.
The bulimic girl won't get any worse (or any better) no matter what you do, because the bulimia is HER problem, not yours. It would be great if you were so powerful that you could control people like that, but you aren't. No one is. SHE is the one who has to fix her problem, and she needs professional help to do it.
As for the one who hates you because you like her ex -- big deal. She's out of the picture as far as he is concerned, and she should be out of the picture for you, too. Just let her do her thing, and spread whatever rumors she wants. People who know you will know what's true and what isn't. And people who know her will know where she is coming from.
Lighten up on yourself, girl, and enjoy the year ahead of you.
2006-08-23 17:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the first girl, you need to spread even nastier rumors about her, but don't let her know that you are the one that started them. Write a note addressed to someone that she sort of knows and use her name as the writer (To: someone she sort of knows From: Her). Then either put it in their locker or leave it in a classroom that that person will be in. LET THE RUMORS FLY...Muuuaahahahahaha
The second girl, make her eat with you and then tie her up so that she will keep it all in.
2006-08-23 14:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hugh Jafro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously both are not worth your time, ignore them and go about your daily life.
The girl who is bulemic should be looked after her parents. It is obvious by your question that you are quite young. If her parents or guardians don't know, tell them, it is life threatening.
And about the emo bit, so what? Who cares?
2006-08-23 14:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to make the best of a bad situation. Don't antagonize the first girl. If she gets nasty, just ignore it.
2006-08-23 14:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a problem that JFK faced against Cuba
2006-08-23 14:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by unisoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like some little girls need to stop squabbling.
2006-08-23 14:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋