LISTEN THIS IS HOW IT IS, I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR ONE YEAR AND FIVE MONTHS. WELL THIS PAST SUMMER WHEN I WENT TO VISIT MY MOM, I MEET THIS OTHER GUY. HE FAIL IN LOVE WITH ME SUPPOSEDLY! I HAVE BEEN TALKING TO HIM FOR ABOUT A MONTH AND A HALF. I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND, BUT THIS OTHER GUY IS REALLY WHAT I HAVE ALWAYS LOOKED FOR. HE SAYS THAT HE WANTS TO SPEND THE REST OF HIS LIFE WITH ME. MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN TALKING ABOUT CHILDREN WHEN I GRADUATE! AND THIS OTHER GUY, JUST STARTED SAYING THE SAME THING. I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND THAT I WOULD DIE FOR HIM (LITERALLY). MY BOYFRIENDS MOM LOVES ME, AND SO DO HIS SISTERS, AND BROTHER. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE SOME GOOD ADVICE, AND I KNOW THIS IS A BAD SITUATION, SO I WOULD RATHER THE ONES WHO HAVE BAD SH** TO SAY JUST KEEP IT TO URSELF.
THANKS KHRYSTYNE AKA KOOKIE
2006-08-23 14:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having the courage to follow your heart isimportant. You are young and have plenty of time to pick the best mate. It's not about whether you love one or both. Love isn't enough. You need compatibilty on many levels. Does he share the same religious beliefs you do? Does he pay his debts? How does he treat his mother? Many more things such as these are more important than warmies for 2 guys giving you attention at the same time. Make your decision with your head more than your heart or you may wind up 15 years later with kids, debt, no college, and starting over. Take it from someone who picked a guy for all the wrong reasons...take it slow, and listen to your gut.
2006-08-23 14:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we come to a cross road in our lives and we must stop and make a choice.i had someone i loved very much when i met another. he made me feel just as loved as my boyfriend. i was confused and had knowone to turn too. in the end i weighted my options. even though i really liked the other guy, i had a lot of time and love invested in someone i had known a lot longer. its not easy, what ever choice you make will hurt, but losing them both would be pure hell.
2006-08-23 21:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really love ur boyfriend as uv just written, then u already know what to do...human craving for better and brighter never stops so stick to ur guts and say I LOVE U TO UR BOYFRIEND coz wanting is one thing but having something and losing it is another.
dont make a mistake in deciding coz it my cost u ur love
2006-08-23 21:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can say is ....choose the one you want to be with the most. You can't keep both of them and be happy. I know its hard to choose, specially if you really like both of them.
2006-08-23 21:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both lying trust me they just want to get into your panties dont have sex ti'll your married even if u use protetion sometimes things slip out.
2006-08-23 21:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well which one is better... i mean....what one would u rather marry that would always be there for u and stuff and help around.....and maybe......if this guys parents loves u and his brother and sister and all maybe its him (ur bf) but its kinda up to u.........sorry if this doesn't help
good luck!
2006-08-23 21:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...... it is very complicated... but i think you should follow your heart..i mean who you feel more comfortable with? who makes you laugh? who calls you when you need him the most? who you wanna see everyday for the rest of your life??? think about it this way.. and i really hope you will figure something... wish you LUCK :)) cheers...
2006-08-23 21:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋