she dont let me talk on the phone with boys she had a b/f at 16 her bf was 21 i dont get it she chnges the rules i wanna date im 15 ill be 16 in january if i look at a boy she freaks out i was on the phone with my friend alex and she freaked out alex is a girl and my mom freaked out she lies who is alex is he a boy and dhe juss crazii its not fair
2006-08-23 14:20:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she thinks she made a mistake by having a 21 year old boyfriend when she was 16, and just wants something better for you.
I know it doesn't seem fair now, but my parents were always really strict with me too. As a result, I didn't date numerous guys in high school, I learnt restraint (even though it was really hard), and have now ended up with a really great man who I'll be marrying in March. At the time I thought my parents were being really cruel, but now I can see that they were trying to teach me a better way of doing things.
I know it's tough at the time though, so keep your chin up, and best of luck to you.
2006-08-23 14:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by epiCure 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a protective mother too. I believe she loves you and would not want anything bad happen to you. She's been through your age before and she knows what is going on now. And you are still young, what's the rush in dating girl? I started dating when I was 20 (I'm 21 now) but then again, I have to do it discreetly. ^_^ All we need to do is to gain our mother's trust. And you should introduce your mom to Alex. Maybe that would change your mom's mind about you going out with guys and all. All the best yea! Take care!
2006-08-23 14:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Vk-san 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only consult along with her and clarify you need slightly greater freedom and you may prepare that to her and if she doesnt like some thing you do she will pull returned the deal she makes with you. mothers love there babies lots so as that they are going to do only approximately something to be sure they are not getting harm from everyone or something. i'm unsure how previous you're yet while i began courting or brilliant out with pals I had to have people bypass with me. i grow to be no longer allowed to journey down the line in any respect I had to play in my backyard. As for sending a percentshe could only be hectic with regard to the internet and if the incorrect guy or woman gets a carry of your image. She has your suited intentions at heart shes only conserving on slightly greater advantageous than she could. Boys who're 2 years older than you're greater advantageous than possibly to take income of you or communicate you in to issues.
2016-11-05 12:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by dopico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom doesn't want you to be caught up by the many sex crazed boys or even men. She wants you to stay focused with school and find a decent man. Right now you're in the zone for older guys to rob you from the crib. They say all the things you think is love and when he has had sex with you, he doesn't care anymore. Your mom is worried and doesn't want your innocence taken away by the wrong guy. She wants you to be safe.
2006-08-23 14:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by shinuyugi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your mum had some bad experiences with boys when she was around your age. So your mum's protective 'cos she's more experienced than you for she knows you're still immature emotionally at your age and that talking on the phone with boys will lead to dating, romance, sex & unwanted pregnancy. Please concentrate on your studies & wait till you're at least 21 before you get curious & serious with an honest & caring type of boy. This may be old-fashioned advice from me but you won't regret following it.
2006-08-23 14:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by Shot At Sight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen you might be the baby of the family, or not.. & if u are that's the reason right there !! plus your a 16 yr. old girl on top of that thats 2 BIG reasons right there... she's your mom, come on that's the way most moms are that i know of..
2006-08-23 14:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise this. If she's treating you as though you're immature, respond by being mature and talk with her calmly about it, as though you were an adult. It wouldn't hurt to try. And don't lose your love for your mother, in any event.
2006-08-23 14:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she cares for you!She probaly doesn't want the bad thing that happen to her to happen to u?But my parent arn't that strict though
2006-08-23 14:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't want you to have a boyfriend early because since she did.. maybe something happened..
2006-08-23 14:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋