2006-08-23 14:15:49 · 24 answers · asked by holla at my angry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spicey, on the edge, Fearless, and a whole lotta FUN! ; )
2006-08-23 14:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Helzabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all done it at one time or another. We whine to our friends about the lack of nice available guys, and then, when given the choice between a nice, sweet (safe) guy and a bad boy who makes our toes curl, we invariably go for the toe-curler. The
heartbreak-waiting-to-happen. The bad boy.
Doesn't make any sense, does it? I recently received a letter from a sweet guy who wrote, "I've been looking for some insights to what women are looking for, because from my perspective, they often go for that which they complain about most! Got any advice for us men?" Baby, you hit the nail right on the head. There's good news and bad news for all you nice guys out there. Your day will come. It just may not be today.
Nearly all women go through some period in their lives when they're swept up by a bad boy. The Navy Seal with the amazing bod and the mental prowess of a fruit plate. The Harley guy with mean beard stubble and an attitude to match. The Josh Hartnett look-alike who makes us feel like the center of the universe, and then puts the moves on our roommate the minute we leave for the ladies room. We can see these guys coming a mile away, and yet we fall for it every time.
Why? Part of us actually like to believe we can be the one girl to turn this wild man into a pussycat. Part of us just like that down-to-our-toes thrill, the excitement of something we KNOW is bad for us. (Like chocolate cheesecake, and Jimmy Choo shoes.) Part of us are just gluttons for misery. Most women actually grow out of the bad-boy phase once we hit our mid twenties. Our girlfriends start to couple off, and we start wondering if we used up our nice guy quota in college when were still torturing men for sport. That's where you come in, Mr. Sweet Guy. Because you're the guy we really want.
Here's my advice for all the nice guys:
Remember what we were wearing on our first date. Give romantic gifts on birthdays and anniversaries (and remember flower-mandatory holidays such as Valentine's Day.) Get what we're all about. Let us know what you're all about. Kill any bugs that sneak into the kitchen. Give us your coat when it gets chilly outside. And remember there's a fine line between being a nice guy and being a doormat -don't take any crap from us. After all, you don't want to be a good boy in love with a bad girl.
2006-08-23 21:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said bad boys are a better lay?
They's one-note cats!
Will a bad boy try different positions, different speeds, go down on you, or anything like that? Will he kiss you and caress you BEFORE he ruts you like an animal, which is what bad boys and nice boys all want to do to you anyway?
I think it's natural selection. Women are part human and that part of their brain wants to associate with nice people. But the rest of them is woman and they want to feed their kids.
An a**hole father will take food from the nice fathers and fatten his kids.
2006-08-23 21:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I don't qualify as a woman, I am only 16. But I do not like bad boys. I don't like burnout druggies or boys with behavioral problems that have run-ins with the cops. That is what bad boys essentially are, right? Boys with issues.
I like good boys. Boys that are nice and work hard.
2006-08-23 21:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What attracts a woman first to the bad boy is their confidence.
Unfortunately what keeps them going back is the fact that these women don't think they deserve better. So in the long run it is a lack of confidence on the woman's part.
Or it could be that they want to change them, women are famous for that...trying to CHANGE men...LOL...sad but true
2006-08-23 21:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nice guys don't get laid.
Ever notice how all the hot girls keep complaining about guys they hooked up with who turned out to be assholes? You could be that guy! The guy who has his way with her one night, then leaves the next day and is never heard from again. Or maybe hooks up with her for a few weeks, then she finds out he has another girl on the side.
Leykis 101 works!
2006-08-23 21:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad boys are more exciting than good boys. It is as simple as that. Girls like excitement, more than good sense sometimes
2006-08-27 20:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because a bad boy doesn't worry about being told F-off if he wants a chic and will go after the hottest babes
2006-08-23 21:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't, I'm tired of the bad boy type.
I'd rather find me a nice guy...
now where are they hiding...
God Bless!
2006-08-23 21:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
losers attract losers in the parts of city u live in but i was raised that women love wealthy men where i come from
2006-08-23 21:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋